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How Does A Gemini Break Up With You?
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Monday, January 14, 2019 - 9:18 am
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How does a Gemini end a relationship? How do you know you’ve lost their interest, for good?

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My experience with Gemini men is that it’s only a matter of time before the other shoe drops, and they pull some duplicitous bullcrap that blindsides even the most keen of people. They always have something up their sleeves; and they’re happy to lie dormant while you slip into a cozy, trusting stupor…then wham!

Sabotage.

And they’ll feign innocence forever.

I stopped trusting them AGES ago after being blindsided by two Gemini ex-boyfriends. One was a Gem Sun/Aquarius Moon. The other was a Gem Sun/Virgo Moon.

My Sagittarius best friend was also blindsided by her Gem Sun/Sag Moon second husband at a very difficult time in her life as she had just lost her job.

A classic example of this uncomfortable habit of Gemini men is when Russell Brand blindsided Katy Perry by informing the media before telling her via TEXT that he was divorcing her. NOT cool.

I’m a Gemini Sun (near the Cancer cusp) woman with my natal Moon in Scorpio, and I truly felt for Katy (also a natal Scorpio Moon) after reading how heartbroken she was when he did that to her. I, too, was absolutely devastated when my marriage ended.

Having my Progressed Sun in Cancer for most of my life and my natal Venus in Cancer, I approach relationships in a much more Cancerian and Scorpionic way than a Gemini way as my Venus is ruled by my Moon in Scorpio.

I love deeply and hurt for a long time after a breakup.

It would be interesting to hear other people’s experiences of how their relationships with Gemini men ended.

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my husband has a few close male friends from childhood and from college, one Aries sun/Taurus moon Gemini venus/Gemini mars, (he is with a libra woman w/scorpio) & a couple others that dont have any gemini…. but one Gemini sun near Taurus cusp, withh taurus and cancer venus,cancer dominant. He would always tell my husband he would never be poor. and it came true. Now he’s super rich, and married a very ambitious woman, with a phd, and i suspect she’s very capricorn-ish. lol i have to find out her birthday. I know a gemini man as a good friend in the past, but it was coworker type, and met in groups that we had same hobbies. He has a scorpio moon capricorn rising, virgo dominant. lol From my experience, they seem really steady, in their love. Also my husband’s beloved grandfather was a Gemini sun, with sag and cancer placements and was married long term to the end, Pisces sun, with Aqua and capricorn placements. I dont know what keeps them interested in these women. Astrology says it’s synastry … and their venus and moons are satisfied.

the only thing i could think of with Katy Perry is that she has alot of capricorn planets, a stellium and what i know of capricorn because i have it too. Is that the dark side is too controlling. I have also found Aries placements very controlling too (cardinal is about control i think) so …you have the two squares super controlling and they can’t take it anymore because you have to give in with either what the Aries says or the Capricorn.

Capricorn doesn’t want to give up their rules unless it makes sense to them. Aries, from what i found, they are kind of looking for the IDEAL…so if you aren’t fitting the ideal for them, (like how libra is) then they will stay around for awhile until they can’t take it either. I saw this in also Aries moon. :/

Johnny Depp is Gemini with capricorn and taurus placements, and i think the problem may lie too much with his need of control perhaps? And Amber Heard was his last wife, who had Libra moon Cap mars, also need for control. So i guess… they break up with you if you aren’t their ideal and dont bend for their ways, that may happen. How my husband’s grandparents, with his gemini grandfather, he was a minister/farmer, and hard working, and he was i heard very controlling, (could be the cancer placements) in his way, and was religious;  he was unbending, so his wife, a Pisces with capricorn & Aquarius placements bended to his ways and he loved her to the end of his life. 

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Monday, February 4, 2019 - 7:18 am
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Mentally… Then lets other person do the bad part of actually breaking it off.. Probably shouldn’t admit that lol

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lmao.  what if the other person doesn’t want to leave ? its masochism? 😛

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Hahaha guess soo… at least until inner scorpio comes out n cuts em off regardless 😉

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This is why I don’t trust them at all. I know a Gemini Sun with a Sagitarius Moon. Mercury, Mars and ASC in Cancer and Venus in Gemini. I kind of wish I hadn’t of got involved with him. I should have stopped talking to him as soon as he said he was a Gemini. I’m just going to hookup with him for sex once and be done with him. I’m not going to get involved with him romantically just sex once and that’s it.

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Haha woah now.. don’t conclude all Gemini’s are the same. I am trust worthy and a Gemini. Also if you don’t like his vibe I would be aware of energy attachments you may obtain through sex. Just my thoughts

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yeah lol it would be highly suggestible to have personal planets in AIR. gem/aqua/libra. whatever. ;p these trines can understand eachother.

I remember reading about Paul McCartney… Gemini sun with stellium there.  And he couldnt stop talking to Libra sun Linda, who became his wife. It was read on their biography that they talked and talked all night. Keep them talking all night till exhaustion and they will be yours forever ;p

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That is true.. Anyone who can keep me engaged and talking I will be yours forever. Ironically I am kind of a quiet person. That is until I see a purpose in our conversation.

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I used to be friends (< in the normal sense of this word!) with a Gemini guy who had girlfriend after girlfriend for years. The way he broke up with them: first he found someone else, then he told current girlfriend “I want to sort my head out” and pretended like he was confused lol. He married someone at some point. After about 1 year he found someone else and left his wife.

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wow. i only know and have met Gemini suns who stay with one person. Or they are single forever. lol i must be a fluke to meet & have known those men ^^  

he sounds super flighty. 

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Gemini Rising/Venus, he ghosted which was painful because we had been best friends. Gemini Moon/Venus lied, broke me, and then ghosted.

It kinda sucks because I seem to attract Venus in Gemini, even just as good friends (Merc/Jup in Gemini, 8th house), but it’s ultimately incompatible with my own Venus. 

Ghosting is such an irresponsible way to treat another human…so is putting all your emotions on someone else, too, though. 

I know many Gemini Suns who are completely in love and devoted to their partner, and have been for ten, twenty, thirty, or forty years. One Gemini Sun/Cancer Venus I know is a match made in heaven with his Libra Sun/Scorpio Venus wife. He did tell me he ghosted the woman he was with before her though lol. It seems like until they find the right person, all bets are off in terms of shooting straight. 

Eta, this, of course, is not intended to describe every individual Gemini dominant person. 

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I have Venus and Mars in Gemini but I’m a Cancer sun, and both my Venus and Mars are in House VI, the house of Virgo. I have Moon in Aquarius but it’s in House II, the house of Taurus. I like to communicate but I hate empty words. I feel like I need to care and do things for the other person in order for the relationship to have real value and to feel like I’m contributing.

 

My six-and-a-half year old cousin, who was born on June 2nd, 2012, has Sun AND Venus in Gemini. Don’t even want to imagine what she’ll be like when she grows up. She also has Moon in Scorpio so that’s one hell of a flighty, yet volatile and potentially explosive combination. She has has Sun and Venus conjunct in Air so she’ll likely be a social butterfly and a smooth talker who has the potential to please and mingle with many, but the feelings may not be genuine or deep. She also has Moon-Pluto, Mars-Pluto and Mercury conjunct Venus. She’s only a little girl but for some reason I feel repulsed by her. She’s already becoming a spitting image of my abusive mom and grandmother. She has Virgo ascendant that’s square her Sun, Mercury, and Venus which means they’ll also be square her descendant in Pisces, so I believe she’ll not be an easy person to get along with. Sun Square Mars, Mercury Square Mars, Venus Square Mars in Virgo. Venus in exact conjunction with her Ascendant which means it’ll be opposite her Descendant. Her Pluto in IV describes the darkness of my home environment. Mars is conjunct her Ascendant which means it’s opposite her Descendant, so she could be one feisty little lass.

 

My mom has Sun Trine Pluto (Sun in Aquarius at 3.05 degrees forming out-of-sign trine with late degree Pluto in Virgo at 27.15 degrees) and a Mars Opposition Pluto between Mars at 28.59 degrees Pisces and Pluto. She has Mars in VIII (holy crap). Let’s just say she’s not had an easy life and I feel like she THRIVES on trouble, chaos, and games I’d rather not play. Very controlling and domineering and needing attention but not aware of it (Moon in Leo in XII and Leo ascendant), yet also very pessimistic and restrained (Mercury in Capricorn).

 

My chart is simpler in comparison to the charts of my mom and my cousin because not a single one of the 3 outer planets is involved with my natal planets. I can feel that I’ve a different “energy” or “life force” than they do, and that I don’t seem to be bothered by the numerous forces and complexities that have been in my mom’s life. Overall, I feel like a much more straightforward person than she is and I’ve never felt a struggle with these non-personal forces beyond my control. For the most part I’ve felt quite sure of myself, and my personality’s more genuine and less complex than theirs. 

I believe it’s not easy for people without Pluto in aspect to their personal planets to understand the lives of those who do. In this case since Pluto’s not prominent at all in my chart, I’ve never felt that my life has been shaped by power struggles and manipulation / domination, I like to view myself as dark but reality is my life and my personality are nowhere near as dark and complex and secretive as that of my mom’s and she’s not even a Scorpio. I’ve never quite figured her out because she doesn’t open up herself, not even to me. It’s like every interaction she has with someone, and most of what she says is always with a PURPOSE, an AGENDA that’s calculated and meant to achieve some personal goal. In other words I don’t think I even know, or she even knows who she really is and what she really wants. She has such intensely negative feelings towards my father even 17 years after their divorce and growing up, even now, she’s projected her hatred of my father onto me. 

   

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the description about your mother, who have hatred towards your father 17 years later, sounds more the Leo part. No offense. I love Leo energy but from the consistency i’ve seen over the years; my first husband, the Pisces sun/Leo moon has a mother he hated/loved, who was always so negative: she was a Leo sun, who was married to a Scorpio/Sagittarius, with Virgo mars, and she had virgo venus. According to him, she could not let go of the resentment and hatred she felt for the Sag/Scorpio  man with Aries moon (who left her 30 years ago) and even though she met someone else a decade after the divorce who was kind and nice and opened his home for her, she still couldnt get over the first husband who left. I think the Aquarius part detaches (which is known to detach) so if she still harbors strong feelings it maybe that Leo part. Like the pride was hurt so bad. Like why would he leave me feeling. Aquarius part would just rather, be on their merry way if the man didnt want them, it will hurt alot but the Saturn part of them is more like Woe is me, i’m pathetic no one wants me anyway. and wallow in misery and just don’t mind anymore.

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