Help with transits
Yesterday in one of the chats on this forum I realized I don't know enough or understand how current transit affects my natal chart. I'm posting my chart in the hope someone will see what transits are impacting me, is Saturn-Uranus sitting heavily somewhere, some long transits I'm obviously not aware of, any insight would be greatly appreciated because I really need to understand why I'm stuck, why do I feel so heavy, like nothing will change, tho deep down inside I know it will, but I feel like I've been stuck for years now. Thank you in advance!
I think you are more impacted by Pluto in Capricorn than by Saturn Uranus. It's squaring your natal Pluto and pulling in your Cancer planets as well.
@dori Saturn has been transmitting your 3rd house since 2020, so the sense of being stuck is likely a perception as Saturn can affect your thinking, mental processes and communication when in this house, causing blockage, limitations, obstacles... in this case in your mind or thinking and communicating, so you may also feel a bit depressed. You have Aquarius ruling this house natally so I'm guessing you are normally quite an innovative, open minded, free or original thinker, perhaps you have visions or awareness that is uncommon. This would make it harder to bear the stuck, stagnant thoughts that come with the transit. Be aware that it is a perception and try to find ways to tap into your less limited inclinations, perhaps via meditation or journaling - free writing, to relieve the tension.
Saturn by transit is squaring Uranus in your 6th.It made me feel like you are ready to shake up your routines, daily ways, to be more changeable and innovative there. Just be aware that your perceptions are being burdened by Saturn, but the process will help you define how you truly perceive or think about things, your own ideas. I would focus on any ways you can innovate or are innovating in your daily life, including work, as this will alleviate sense of stuckness and show you that change is possible. You may be projecting your need for change onto your bf due to Mars' involvement with Uranus atm by transit, also because 6th house conjoins the descendant. Try to focus on your own activities and how you can make a fresh start in how you run your daily life. It's a heavy transit but you can make breakthroughs which are more authentic to you as a person.
@dori Saturn entered Aquarius 2020, but yes, hit your 3rd h cusp exact around Feb 2021. He leaves Aqua for Pisces 7th March 2023. He'll be in your 3rd but in Pisces until mid April 2024, although the quality of this transit will be different from Aquarius.
Don't know if you've used an ephemeris, it's a way to track transits by degree in the signs, you can explore them by year here: https://cafeastrology.com/ephemeris.html
Just find the symbol of the planet you want to follow at the top, and in the table beneath are the degrees it moves and dates by month at the side. It shows when the planet stations, go retrograde and direct. You can compare these with the degrees of your houses and angles, etc to get a sense of duration of a transit.
Regarding the detaching bf, its possible its the Mars (masculine) Uranus conjunction at work. As Elsa recommended, best to also practice detachment and give lots of space in relationships atm!
im not an astrologer, but I went trough Pluto sq Pluto in 2017. I also felt stuck. And really lonely, my bf was away for 2.5 month for work. I never felt so lonely at that time. But, the fact that my bf wasn’t there, the situation resulted in the fact that I moved in with him, unconsciously getting me out a very toxic situation. I remember after I’ve moved I didn’t know what to do. Huge change, but him not being there meant a blessing in disguises for other problems to be solved. If not for my bf and the situation then I wouldn’t have moved and still be 24/7 in a very toxic and draining situation. After that Uranus came to Taurus and opposed his Pluto and Venus. And he started with a debt program, he was in debt before he met me. There was change needed, and I just went along .
I understand you want the change also to come from him. If I look at my own situation, we both needed space, not from eachother but from my living environment. And the transits started it and brought the change. I changed slowly ( still working on it) and I know even tho I’m under some big ass transits that eventually everything is going to be just fine.
my dad is a sun Aqua too, and he don’t like being pushed, he needs his space, and his mercury in Aqua testifies for that.
you do you! What is truly hurting? What is it that you need and that you can give yourself ?
I see you have a lovely Leo moon if I look correct , go where the light is so the shadows can’t catch up my grandmother used to say.
seems to me that you already had to deal with Pluto oppositions to your cancer placements. The Pluto square didn’t kill me. So it won’t kill you either.
best of luck! And lots of warm hugs.
- Hi Dori,
pluto started opposing your sun February 10th 2013 until December 2013, lingering back and forth between 9 degrees and 11 degrees, your sun is at 10 if I’m not mistaken. Then the following year it was still close but in separating degrees.
in 2015 it began opposing your Venus. And in 2020 it opposed your mercury.
i didn’t experience Pluto opposing sun, but I had Saturn opposing my sun in 2020. Thad was a very hard year for me, but it actually helped me out in leaving a very toxic and abusive situation. My mom passed away in 2020. But i haven’t spoke to her in 20’years so I was fine by that.
I mourned her 30 years ago after a childhood full of being beaten up and molested. For me the opposing transit Saturn sun meant going to therapy and start healing.
my family were and are gaslighters, they kept everything under the rug due to the abuse and molesting. So I was glad to be rid of my family for once and for all.
sure I mourn the fact at times that I don’t have family. But rather living without them and not be treated like s#%t than having them as my family.
im sorry that your family are what they are. It comes from insecurity I guess. My family are envious people, if they know your in trouble they are happy. If I’m doing good they are very envious .
I’m not rich I just live a a simple life. Sure I would like to live a bit more comfortable, since my bf had to go trough a debt program. But I wouldn’t have it any other way.
If I’m not mistaken you said your bf is an Aquarius? My dad is one, and he can be detached but he doesn’t do it on purpose. The good thing is my dad worries less than I do. Because of his detached state.
you have sun, Venus and mercury in cancer so moon ruled. I get it that you long for a family.
maybe transit Jupiter into your 5th house could mean a pregnancy? I’m not an astrologer tho. But I do know of some of my friends having 5th house transits resulting in pregnancy.
If people measure what they have instead of what they are, that’s shallow in my opinion and materialistic. I have to be honest I was very materialistic when I was younger, but when the going got rough that stuff didn’t comfort me.
I have Uranus in my 2nd house, so always ups and downs with income. I learned to live with that and drop the attitude of being materialistic.
you’ll be fine honey trust me. With your placements in cancer you tend be a very emotional and caring person. Give the emotional care to yourself you deserve it. And when the time comes for a little baby you can spoil them with all the care you have inside.