Dating Pisces Men
I just read all the responses and OMG . These men sound nothing like my Pisces. Thank God for that Aries Stellium I guess. lol My husband definitely has flaws that annoy me beyond belief but overall he's a strong chivalrous husband and wonderful father to our kids.
I love the responses that color them all the same and how you should learn from them to NEVER date one. ?
Haha. I know, right! 🙂
My father is a Pisces. He has a stellium of Pisces planets in his natal 12th. Also. He has a stellium of Libra planets in his 7th. To say that he of a romantic heart would be an understatement. He also grew up in an age where a man was to be "a man."
My mother is a Leo. She has Sun, Pluto and Chiron cazimi in the 12th. Also. She has Moon and Venus in Virgo of her 1st house. To say that she would like to be romanced in "a certain way", would be an understatement. She also grew up in an age where a woman was to emulate the likes of Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis. In my mothers younger days, she was a dead ringer for the image of the woman! Devastating for men of the times. But, she could only "garter" a fourth runner-up in the small city beauty pageant.
I can imagine, in the most profound Piscean way, of how their courtship went. Him telling her everything she ever wanted to hear. Believing it, hook-line-and-sinker. Both of them cohorts to a certain belief "system." She and he both found fertile and graduation, for her, was a no-show. A small wedding and mundane became disdain as his ability to keep up the Romance Dick was found harder to keep than that of the physical. She was used to getting what she wanted and, finally, settled for trying to change a man whom had become addicted to cheap beer and regulating beautiful thoughts to the confines of the area between his ears whilst standing on his feet in his literal basement staring at a wall imagining it to be the life he always wanted knowing full and well that he never was as social as she willfully thought him to be and that he never would be. Ever.
The belittlement began. Ever so slowly, at first. And, then, an emotion to rise the ocean; the erosion became.
One has to take into account that dealing with Piscean energy, the Pisces will become what, essentially, YOU are. If you are having difficulty in your understanding of Self, sidle up to a Pisces. If you are of strong ego temperament, Pisces may undermine, victimize or swim away. But, there will be a blending. Melding. Melting.
Both of my parents are narcissists. Whom, ultimately, wanted to live alone in ivory towers. I am grateful for their union. I have no relationship with them. It is how they wanted it to be. Be careful of what you wish for...
First time I read this Chad.. a beautiful read.
Pisces men my Muse. The sex transcendent. They are just so slippery, difficult to catch. They had a tendency to shut down..alot
wow, so on point with Piscean energy in men (who are dominant 12th pisces) at least. My first love is a Pisces sun/Leo moon,Pisces mars/mercury stellium. Weirdly, anyone with strong Pisces in their chart, the identity thing comes out. I believe it has to do with projection and not knowing yourself, like you mentioned. there is a mirror we hold up to eachother. So if someone does have a very strong ego, like your mother (leo sun) although it is immersed in 12th, there is going to be a "belittlement" and victimization and swimming away from the harsh realities. It's better to focus on the beauty and creativity and not think too much of "what should be" and just acceptance, of what is beautiful and what they will give you in your life, which is just that. They have a "hold" and "charm" that imprisons you if they focus on you.
my current husband has no pisces/12th energy, so I can see the huge difference. lol he is their opposition/dominant virgo energy. it's harsh and cruel at times but after awhile, I can take it over the years and become "tougher skinned". two Piscean energies can be difficult. the only couple I see this working in reality of two famous people, is the James Bond actor, Daniel Craig and his wife Rachael Weiss. And maybe because Daniel Craig has so much Aries. And Aquarius dominant, and perhaps he can "detach" easily and do his own thing.