Challenges in letting go with Venus, Neptune, Pluto conjunct in natal chart
The topic title says it all. I've struggled with letting go all my life when it comes to romantic relationships (other relationships, not really an issue at all).
I've always instinctively known when something doesn't feel over, and it keeps me from moving on and letting go and letting God handle it. Not healthy.
Is this Venus/Neptune/Pluto placement known for this obsession/rumination? Every time Elsa mentions "corpse alert" I always wonder if I'M the corpse and not my exes
Is this Venus/Neptune/Pluto placement known for this obsession/rumination?
I'd say you're looking in the right place. This combination could easily manifest as dreaming up the lover who dead and gone. You say it's not over, but for them it is? If so, you're imagining.
I wish you luck with this. I'm not easy. Once, I lost more than a decade to something like this.
I have Venus opposing Pluto and a trine to Neptune. I don't think this would be as compelling as the conjunction but I can say that I have tended to fall in love with the part of the person that you might describe as their 'soul'. It was often a powerful feeling of re-meeting with the person again. This part of the person is not necessarily in charge and so I needed to take more account of their manifest/ego personality, i.e., through recognising the role of Saturn energy. I was able to experience their soul potential, connect on this level, and it was hard to let go of this when things went wrong. Eventually I was able to value the manifest side of the person's personality and understand where this might not fit with me or see that they were at a different stage of life. Also with the Pluto energy, these relationships were all very karmic and had the role of taking me to the next level regarding the development of my consciousness. The way I found to let go was to understand how the soul element between us remained connected (rather like when people die but we still feel connected in spirit), but it was simply not possible to continue in the material world, which must be respected while we are on Earth. In most cases, the relationship had purpose and a healing or evolving impact on both.