Calling all Scorpio Risings/Scorpio! How do you handle people who stare too much
@flip58: I do try to use my charisma to my advantage but it sometimes backfires, people sometimes get a little too obsessed with trying to figure me out/win me over sometimes, also it's nice to get attention but not ALL the time. Also people tend to over sexualize me, I am a sexual person don't get me wrong but under my ascedant I am an Aries (goofy and lighthearted) and a Pisces (moon/mercury/mars) emotional and kind/sympathetic so people misjudge me all the time, I have researched the Scorpio Ascendant and once thing I have found is that people do really love or hate me instantly.
My next question is, do they approach you?
I hate the 'trying to figure me out' phase. Stay in your own please.
What website are you using to determine your Ascendant?
@sunnyP: No from my experience I don't attract Pisces, though I felt a pretty intense connection to a pisces one time, I attract Scorpio more than Pisces.
also I am using astrowin
It's often assumed that everything emotionally intense has to be Scorpio, and people tend to want it in their charts because it sounds cool and sexy, but Cancer and Pisces can definitely also give off and attract that kind of energy... It's really a Water thing. Staring is a non-verbal communication method that Watery inner planet folks tend to rely on, and a way of absorbing others' vibes.
We also have a harder time preventing our emotions from being silently 'broadcast' -- which can draw people in and incline them to stare at us as if hypnotized when it's a feeling they find attractive... Or, if they happen to catch our gaze when we're in a bad mood, they can be visibly taken aback and even strongly repelled.
I am Pluto Rising in Scorpio. Oh no, it's never a blank stare. It doesn't have to be mean either, but there is always intent behind it. It's just an intensity that I project outwardly through my eyes. I stare back because it lets them know I feel & see you. It's kind of a power thing I guess if you really want to break it down. So, even if someone is staring because they are checking me out... I break the stare. Or if they are being an asshole... I stare double back. I only act blank when I am actually conversing with someone that I feel is projecting. It's a good way to dismiss projection. (I have Pluto ASC opposite my Sun)
If you have Pluto conjunct, you should definitely feel your power. Especially since it's on the ASC. I walk into a room with a powerful undertow and it is reflected in people's reactions to me/it... that should sound familiar to you if you have the aspect. Are you younger? I am an extremely sexual person. I also have Mars (Scorpio & my chart's ruler) in the 8th house though. Where is your Mars & Pluto?
I really need to find a photo of my brother. He has Sun, Mecury, Mars, Saturn, and Pluto in Scorpio. He can be viscious and down right scary for A LOT of people. You can see it in his eyes.
People who've stared at him usually have a story to tell afterwards.