“Life is like a game of cards. The hand you are dealt is determinism; the way you play it is free will.”
This is a topic that comes up frequently. It always makes me cringe. I suspect the most proposed answer is usually Scorpio but I just don’t see it. Scorpio is sexually charged and may appear covert but highly expressed, Scorpio is probably least likely to cheat. There are so many variables that could make a person prone to cheating that listing them seems irresponsible at best. Cheaters come in many flavors. I think what is most relevant is how highly someone expresses their chart. No matter what is in the chart, cheating is an action and action is governed by free will.
Take serial killers, for example. The most primary statistic about serial killers is that most of them are men. Does this mean there are no female serial killers? No, and clearly only a very small minority of men eat their neighbor’s liver and bury the body under the shed. I have a male friend who has several copies of The Catcher In The Rye, is quiet and keeps to himself. I’m pretty sure he’s not a serial killer.
This is a really good thing to keep in mind when you see something in your chart that common astrological descriptions herald as “bad.” There’s a high expression for every so-called negative placement or aspect. Some of the most accomplished people have terribly “difficult” charts. Adversity is said to build character. Anecdotally, some of the most cringeworthy people I’ve met have “easy” charts.
You can extend this take to include scary prognostications. I imagine there are only so many pianos falling from the sky on a given day, and while bad things do happen to good people, there are too many variables at work, including free will, to waste time worrying about them. Just look up on a regular basis and do the best you can.
Have you ever been frightened or worried by something in your own chart? In the chart of a significant other?