With all the emphasis on Libra in the sky, patterns in relationship and various ways of relating and cross my mind. One thing I’ve been thinking about it how bad it feels when someone loses faith in you. It feels as bad, if not worse to lose faith in someone yourself.
If you have Venus mashed up with Neptune in some way, (Venus in aspect to Neptune, Neptune in the 7th, Venus in the 12th or Venus in Pisces), you’re especially prone to this. If you dream someone into a God, it’s only a matter of time before the veil drops and reveals them to be flawed and human. If someone dreams you into a God, it’s only a matter of time before they become disillusioned. These are the extremes but what I want to address is the vast middle ground.
It’s possible to meet someone have them rely on you for reasons that are not pathological. If you do have someone in your life who believes and has faith in you, I think you should do everything in your power to make sure they don’t have a regret over it.
If you adopt a philosophy like this, the other person’s faith winds up inspiring and enhancing you. On the other hand, if you make a habit of betraying people and letting them down, you’ll be diminished over time.
It’s also worth noting that while it is possible to do, it’s very difficult to restore a person’s faith in you once it’s been lost. Most people are not going to bother with this for anyone is who not family or some other close relation they are very invested in. This is why it’s better to avoid the whole scene if you can.
The way the sky is right now, this is more true than ever because people want solid contacts. You don’t want your lover, your family your friends to lose faith you, but you also don’t want your job or your boss to quit believing in you as it’s quite cold out there right now.
When a person puts their faith in you, it’s an enormous gift. I don’t think people see it this way, for the most part and I am not sure why that is?
Have anyone ever lost faith in you? How did it feel? What about losing faith in another?