I read the comments on the recovering your energy after a break up with great interest. I wonder what you all think of the flip side of the situation.
Let’s say you have a friendship or some other sort of relationship that ends abruptly. You look around and see the person has left some of their things at your house. Things they have loaned you. Some movies maybe. Books or maybe a stepladder you needed once.
Would you feel obligated to return these things or no?
What in your chart drives your behavior?