I just has a consultation with a gal who is risking her marriage with her mouth. I have natal Mars conjunct Mercury and I terrific problem with this myself. If I don’t check myself, I can open my mouth and have knives fly out!
“…Again, I am not trying to hurt you. This is PRACTICAL. You can’t call a man a spineless loser and expect him to want to kiss you. What you are doing here is literally, “abuse”. So don’t feel bad, just STOP. That’s probably all he wants, anyway…”
Venus and Mercury are conjunct in Fire sign, Aries today. This will continue for the next three weeks so it’a a good time to think about this. You want a verbal challenge, but as I explained to the client, while she’s saying things like this, other women who may be interested in her husband, are also talking to him. They’re wanting to “conquer” him in a entirely different way.
Are you a woman with this kind of mouth? Do you have a handle on it? How do you manage?