Relationships are front and center with Venus and Mars and Saturn in Libra so I thought I’d take on some of these communally asked questions as part of my series – tag – Love Tips.
A lot of women mistakenly believe a man has serious and authentic interest in her when his primary interest is in maintaining access to sex. Few want to be alone and if a woman is not too demanding, a man will most definitely hang around for sex and I can’t say that I blame him. After all, he’s horny and he’s got a consenting adult.
Most men, having been in trouble with women before will be very careful what they communicate to women in these situations but women don’t necessarily listen very carefully. Here are some tips:
If a man tells you he only want to be friends, that he is not ready for commitment, that he is not yet over a past relationship, these statements are all code for, “the odds I am going to marry you are virtually non-existent for reasons I am not going to disclose”.
Women hear these things and often imagine the statements to mean, if they try really, really hard, they can change this man’s mind. The odds they are are successful in this endeavor are extremely low. There is an old adage to keep in mind in these situations. “Work to get, work to keep.”
Men, when they are really interested in a women leave little doubt. They hone in and you see their Mars workin’ overtime.
Does your man leave you confused as to his intention?