I have a friend, struggling in a new environment. It’s not any fun but I think he’ll be fine longer term. He tends to get off to a rocky start, but invariably people grow to love him.
I have a similar experience. I grow on people, often against their will.
I’m thinking this is a function of the water signs and houses. You know. Shut the door all you want. We’re going to seep in anyway. Once we do you get used to us. We become familiar and oddly comforting.
Do you grow on people? What’s the astrology?