I speak with a lot of people about their relationships. I keep in mind, I’m only hearing one side of a story!
It’s easy to become invested in one side of an issue. Your friends will usually side with you. This makes it easy to lose all perspective. There are so many ways to interpret a person’s behavior…or misinterpret it.
If you do the latter, you can lose something of real value that you probably should have kept. You may even blather about how righteous and heroic you are in what you’ve done. You say you’re right and your friends agree, but what does that mean, really?
I have Mars and Mercury in Libra. This allows me to advocate for a client’s partner, for the client’s benefit. If he’s a bastard, fine, but let’s make sure! The day you wake up and realize you’re not innocent, is a big one. It can really jar a person and I speak from experience!
When you had a disagreement with someone that leads you to end the relationship, do you purposely blind yourself to your own play in the situation and/or the experience the other person is having? If so, why? What do you get out of this?