Venus is the planet that rules what we intrinsically value in relationships as well as how we value ourselves. If you’re in love with someone with Venus in Taurus, well…. you’re lucky! Taurus is one of the natural rulers of Venus, so comfy-cozy is the catchword! He might move a little slow when it comes to beginning the relationship, but once he settles on you, you’re in for good. Unlike our previous Venus in Aries, this is not a man to push. It will be like running up against a brick wall and sloooowly sliding down.
Until he decides on you, your best bet is to show him how valuable you are. If you’re an artist, he values that. If you dress nice, taking care of your body, he values that. He doesn’t want flashy or showy, he wants simple, yet refined. He definitely likes the finer things in life, and once you’re partnered with him, you will be treated accordingly.
Cooking for him is a really good idea. But be discriminate. Cook GOOD things, like the finest steaks and serve the best wines. I know it may sound superficial, look at it this way– you most likely will do *something* for your man, so why not do the things that really turn him on? And speaking of turning him on, touching him, gently, will say volumes for how you feel about him. His love language is touch. No need for lots of words, and definitely do not make the mistake of coming on so strong that he thinks you’re not picky. He likes picky.
Lastly, this song keeps winging around in my head while writing about Venus in Taurus. Take what you will from it:
Soft kitty, warm kitty, little ball of fur
Happy kitty, sleepy kitty, purr…purr…purr