Venus is the planet that rules what we intrinsically value in relationships as well as how we value ourselves. If you’re in love with someone with Venus in Gemini, it helps if you have two personalities. Or six. He can handle that! He is probably the best hope you have for finding a man who can listen to gossip, because to him, it’s all just “information”.
Gemini wants variety and while this sign is notorious for being fickle, if you are a witty person with lots of interests and someone who loves to talk about them, he will find you fascinating. He’s not looking for a wallflower, he wants a social butterfly!
Some men don’t like chatterbox women, but this is the one guy who can handle it, as long as you keep it light and varied. One of the reasons why Venus in Gemini has a reputation for liking their partners young is because youth brings with it a freshness of viewpoint and isn’t bogged down by baggage. He wants someone who always has a positive way of looking at things, not someone who is full of existential angst.
He may have a female sibling or cousin that he feels particularly close to, so get on her good side!
He prefers to get arguments out in the open with an exchange of issues, and no lingering resentments!
He has a verbal love language. He likes to be told you love him! He also likes light touch, and Gemini rules the fingers, so start there. He likes media, too, so send him those selfies!