I had this friend, he was married to a Sadge. Her favorite expression was “think about it, you’ll see that I’m right.” Uttered in absolute confidence. For men with Venus in Sadge, this kind of woman awes them. They don’t mind a know-it-all!
Sagittarius is the third and final Fire sign, it has elevated the word “enthusiasm” to an art. Venus in Sadge’s worst reputation as a grass-is-greener, lyin-cheatin-double-dealin’ Venus is just sooooo short sighted! This Venus’ boundless optimism just simply cannot be contained or dampened, and if you try, well, she’ll FLY.
Did I ever tell you that one of my favorite expressions when I am confronting someone who is telling a fib is “you lying sack of Sadge!” ? Well, it is. And for men with Venus in Sadge, it’s ok, they know you were just exaggerating a little. It’s not really a lie…. Trouble is, that works both ways, sister!
Par for the course with the fire signs, Sadge Venus is known to let money slip through her hands. She can also wildly over-estimate the return on an investment, and be sure that a love affair will be exactly as she commands it. There’s nothing so sad as a Sadge Venus when she finds out that was wrong, but don’t worry, she’ll bounce back! Until she does, however, stay out of her way just in case she decides, while she’s in that very transitory bad mood, to tell you a few truths about yourself.
A man with Venus in Sadge loves to travel. Even armchair travel is ok, as long as you’re dreaming of someplace else, contemplating new experiences and learning about new cultures. Of all the Venus signs, this man is more inclined to fall in love with a foreigner than any others, and have absolutely no trouble communicating!
If you’re looking to snag a Venus in Sadge man and don’t have a foreign accent (or are unwilling to fake one for the next 30 years), you need to have a sunny disposition, a cheerful outlook and an open mind. Hey, that’s easy, right? Sadge is mutable fire, the most dangerous kind of fire there is, sparking off willy-nilly, a kid who lights a match, throws it and runs…. unconcerned about swath of destruction left behind. Exciting, see? If that’s your specific kind of crazy, he’ll go ga-ga.
His love language is the exchange of ideas. Don’t dampen his enthusiasm with logic, learn how to open your eyes wide when he’s in his fantastical land, and tell him he’s A GENIUS!!! Oh, lordy, then invite me to the wedding. It’ll probably be in another country.