I’ve been friends with a man for over a year now. We are really close and talk almost every day. As a Capricorn, I am naturally cautious about important matters particularly those close to the heart… but sometimes I get the feeling that he wants more than friendship with me. I should ask him but I don’t want to risk our closeness.
Right now, I just want to dismiss all the signs that’s been bothering me go on with my life. Better safe than sorry, says the Capricorn in me. Ultimately, my question is: is he interested?
That’s too bad about your fear. I imagine he is enormously interested in you but probably very intimidated. You say, “Better safe than sorry,” but I say “Better to live, than not.” Let’s talk about what “closeness” is, okay?
Because you have Venus in Scorpio. And your Moon is conjunct Pluto in Libra – and if there was ever someone with a craving and a need to be deeply connected, it’s you.
But you’re withholding. You’re withholding everything that really matters and this is a grave error. You must take the risk to be authentically close to this man.
I urge you to talk to him or better yet, reach out and touch him. The odds this will work out for you are very enormously high. Grab his hand and hold it. Or hug him and don’t let go until something shift. Get it? Face your fear and risk satisfaction.