Regarding, Dating Scorpio and my statement that I stay out of an ex-boyfriend’s secret haunts after a break up, XenoVega writes:
“I pity the sucker who lets other people dictate their freedom of movement.”
That’s one way of looking at it but to me it’s like having someone confide in you. Your obligation to keep their confidence extends beyond the end of the relationship. Basically I prefer people don’t regret having known me.
I also think the choices I make in this regard impact my future relationships so in sparing them I am actually acting in my own best interest.
I really like being able to say, “I am not lousy” and know that it is true.
Does It Matter How You Break Up With Someone?