I wrote this for a client. I am sure many of you can relate.
“You’re quite earthy and Scorpio is a good match for you. Pluto in Scorpio in your chart is very well aspected, as is Saturn in the sign. I think Scorpio sets off positive things for you and the problems you have in relationship are more internal. Things like commitment-phobia, defenses, being a Virgo (single woman) – stuff like that. So it’s not the Scorpio “other” you have to resolve, but your own internal ambivalence…”
“…The thing to avoid here is: “I am a Virgo maiden and it is others who cause problems”. Not saying you are doing that. Just defining the hole you don’t want to fall in!”