Regarding “How To Spot A Vicious Woman“, kashmiri wrote:
“As for your question as to the percentage of women being vicious, I couldn’t say. I’ve been blessed with what I’ve got and an innate inclination to see it a mile away, and keep it to a smile and nod.”
kashmiri, I can spot them as well and here is my best tip: If you meet a woman and she is bad mouthing, gossiping, taking nasty actions against another person, you can be pretty sure you’ll be next. And men? Well if he’s trashing his ex girlfriend, it’s a good bet that when you’re his ex-girlfriend, he’ll be trashing you in the similar fashion.
I have found Henry’s advice inordinately helpful on this front. He taught that you should approach all people with the assumption they are good because most of them are. But once they prove themselves “disagreeable” (his word), he advised you get away from them as soon as you can.
Once I left a comment on a piece by another astrology blogger that intrigued me. The blogger came back with a insulting and caustic remark that made it clear they did not like me at all. Whoops! Per Henry’s instruction, I realized I was in enemy territory. It was not a blogger but a rabid bear, so I clicked off and never clicked back. Turns out if you live like this and you can avoid most problems with vicious people.
When you see a bear do you turn away or try to turn the bear into a mouse?