This is from a consultation circa 2015. This gas was dating a married man who had lied to her.
“…I don’t think it is bad to “settle”. It’s imperative that people who are prone to fantasy (like me and you), learn to settle! I am happily married now. If I had held out for everything I could imagine or dream up…had I not settled, I would probably have nothing right now!
I work with a lot of women. I can tell you that a lot of them hold out for something they are never going to get. They wind up with nothing.
It’s stuff like this you have to sort through. Who is worth investing in? Who is worth settling WITH, not for? Someone who has been married for a year, and lies to his wife and his girlfriend?
That does not sound like a good prospect to me.”
It’s funny how a person can settle for a fantasy, easier than they can settle for something that is real.
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