Continuing the discussion on Attention Seeking Behavior…
I have Venus square Neptune, natally. People like me and then they don’t. It’s nothing new.
I am a woman who men give rings to and then ask for them back! I mean they want them right off my finger!
This pattern has repeated throughout my life. All I can say if you think you like me, let’s see how you feel next year!
I think this is a Neptune phenomenon because it’s like the tide. The tide is in; I am well liked and appreciated. But the tide doesn’t stay in does it? Next thing you know I am on ass on the beach and there is no one anywhere who going to do a damned thing for me.
Exceptions occur with people who can actually SEE me but these people are few and far between. Further, they rarely offer support! They just wait for the tide to come back in and lift me up as they know it will.
I think this is cruel by the way. I wouldn’t do it myself in a million years. But other people’s choices are none of my business and again, it’s nothing new. I know people feed off my emotion.
If there is one thing I don’t lack it is psychological sophistication. I can readily trace these patterns back forty years. Based on this, no one has to tell me where my limits are and what I can and can’t do. All I can tell you is when a man says, “Elsa, give me that ring back,” I take it from my finger and hand it to him.
Did he make a mistake?
Well yeah, but that’s his right.