Venus Neptune types go from “saint” to “sinner” in not much more than the blink of an eye. Some try to warn a person when they see they’re dreaming them up.
I have Venus square Neptune in my chart and I have all kinds of elaborate (and in many cases imaginary) defenses against this that only work if I delude myself. It forces me to sum this up in 2009, as follows:
After a lifetime of this occurring you do realize that at least for you, love is ethereal. It has no beginning or end. It comes, it goes and it definitely cannot be caught or kept or captured or contained. It leaks all the time and if you have some in your life, you go on faith and nothing but that the love you have will be there tomorrow and if not, there will be something beyond.
For Venus Neptune, sometimes love is a service or a sacrifice but in these cases it is impossible to tell who is served… or sacrificed for that matter. It is impossible to nail these things down because as soon as you do they morph on you and the stories here are incredible.
It is always possible for Venus Neptune to claim victimization but it is not very smart, reason being it’s a dead end. What does Neptune want with a dead-end?
Do you have Venus in Pisces, Neptune in the 7th or Venus aspecting Neptune? Do you feel you’re a victim or have you found a way to avoid this?
I chose the pic because look at those kids. The well is there, it doesn’t mean you get in it.