I think about it, because it is horrifying. But I realize they are projecting and I’ll tell you how I know.
Let’s say X thing happens to someone and they feel like Y about it. And then lets say X thing happens to me.
Does that mean I will feel Y too? Probably not.
You just can’t discount the fact, people are individuals. I can’t have the other person’s experience, even if I have their experience.
See what I mean?