My husband called me. This was before we married.
“I was watching the Godfather last night and it came to the part when Michael was in Italy and he sees Appolonia for the first time. They see each other. They just look at each other and he has to wipe the sweat from his forehead just from seeing her.”
“That’s how I felt when I met you. I still feel like that every time I see you. I have to wipe the sweat from my forehead, P. Anyway he’s just standing there and someone tells him, looks like you’ve been hit by the thunderbolt. I sure know what that’s like…”
My husband has Venus (love) sextile Uranus (sudden) so he’s prone to sudden attraction and love at first sight. His Uranus is conjunct my Venus so I would trigger this tendency big time.
I have Uranus in the Venus-ruled 7th house so I’m prone to the same. In fact, if I am not attracted to you in the first seconds I can tell you for sure, never will be.
MY son is visiting with his (serious) girlfriend. He has Uranus trine his Venus; she has Uranus in her 7th house. They have been together since the moment they saw each other – period.
Is there a Venus Uranus exchange in your chart? Have you ever experienced love at first sight?
I have Uranus trine my Venus and i also get attracted in the first seconds, otherwise the attraction will never happen.
My loved friend has his venus in exact trine my uranus and he has his uranus also trine my venus and mars (i have venus and mars conjunction.
I dont have a Venus Uranus exchange but I have Pluto conjuct Venus in the 8th house and I just “know” as soon as I lay eyes on them that they are going to have an effect on me in a romantic profound sense. As soon as I see them I know Im going to fall….and I mean truly deeply fall without any control….
I dont know if has to be actual first sight in a physical sense of the person though because I once had a wonderful romance with someone through letters and the first time I saw their name on the addressed letter I knew this person was going to change me, I knew I would fall… so I guess it can be a feeling of their energy. I just know at the first moment of meeting, no matter how that meeting occurs.
Mind you it was of course was the perfect romance for a Mars Conjuct Neptune person like me and a triple Pisces with a Neptune square like him. The perfect existant, non existant neptunian romance 😉
Strange cos the ones i have an immediate attraction for, usually turn out to be wrong for me. The ones who have lasted longest have been a gradual process started thru friendship and developing from there. Venus opp uranus.
Same, Venus square Uranus
No Venus/Uranus aspect but I do have Mars inconjunct Uranus, so I know immediately if there is any sexual chemistry. 🙂
I have looked a lots of synastry aspects for others & if there is lots of Uranus/Venus aspects, then people tend to fall fast & hard! And out of love, just as fast & hard, especially if Saturn isn’t in the picture.
With Venus trine Saturn, when it comes to loving someone, it takes lots of time but lasts a long time too (though my feelings may evolve over time . . .)
it’s always there when i first meet someone but i usually take forever to figure out that _that’s_ what making me absolutely make sure i never forget this person…..
(venus/saturn trine, venus/pluto opposition, venus/neptune trine, venus in the 8th)
…because there’s other things that hit me hard and fast, and figuring out which is what takes awhile.
uranus is busy messing around with my mercury. no time to play w/ms great attractor.
Uranus is involved in my earth grand trine along with Mars/Moon/Pluto. So I feel the sexual attraction as soon as my Taurus Mars realizes what’s going on. Thankfully, Saturn sits right on top of my Aries Venus, so love doesn’t enter into the equation without a lot of deliberation.
Voted “exists”. There’s no Venus-Uranus exchange in my chart but Venus-Pluto – rulers of my nodes – are conjunct…:)
I´ve got Venus in 8, conjunct moon node, sextile Uranus, trine moon-saturn. Attraction not in the first seconds, rather in the first minutes, hours or days, but that´s just attraction, and I need more than that for further interest. Unfortunately, Uranus is always playing games with me – the men I fall for usually vanish or break it off before a relationship is settled, despite of strong feelings on their side too. I must scare the shit out of them, and I still haven´t quite figured out why.
The ones I shy away from but am intrigued by are usually the ones for me. I have pluto conj. venus. It’s all about intensity and power not quickness.
If I work the room but keep returning to one person or keep looking for one guy to return to me and he does then it builds and I know. Hopefully I’m not feeling needy because venus and pluto also square my moon which can interfere.
I’ve been in love several times and it was always a decision. Except in my current relationship and it was pretty instant – first touch though, not first sight. He touched my hand and I was gone for him from that moment.
I have Venus conjunct both Pluto and Uranus. If something is right, it’s usually very sudden AND very intense.
I’ve figured out that a lot of men can’t handle this kind of energy, which explains why I was pretty lonely when I was younger. Someone who is simply looking for a “good time” doesn’t want to fall hard, fall fast, and get hooked!
And an interesting side note about Venus-Uranus synastry: My husband’s Uranus sits exactly on my Venus (29 Virgo). I knew within minutes of meeting him that we were going to get married, and he proposed to me less than 3 months after our first date.
My Venus is square Uranus. I’ve always been able to decide immediately whether or not I’m attracted to a person … but while attraction may exist, I definitely need good conversation to keep me going. I am wary of investing too much time in someone just for a fuck!
I hav venus square uranus….n i fall in love in seconds!! But i never pursue it cuz i fall out of it eventually. having venus sq uranus is someting u cant describe….its like everywhere i go there is some1 who makes my heartbeat short n cud be `the one`
the upside..? u dont get attached to lovers or friends. which holds true for me even tho i hav moon opposition pluto. i kinda flit between the 2 extremes….scorpio obsessiveness vs aquarian coldness.
There isn’t a venus/uranus exchange in my chart, but I do have Uranus sextile Mars. My mars in turn is semi-square Venus which is semi-square Pluto (which is square Mars).
I find if my mars isn’t triggered I’m just not all that interested. If I don’t want to jump you why go through all that bother? And I’ve tried but I just get so booooooored.
I don’t believe in “love” at first sight, since I could never fall in love with someone without hearing what they have to say and hearing their voice. However, I have fallen hard and fast based on incredible mental sexual chemistry that leads to the physical. I connect that to Venus (11th house) sextile Uranus (1st house) trine Mercury in Gemini (9th house). I considered it a great compliment when I was told “you have a sexy mind!”
For me, the Uranus thunderbolt consists of lightning fast communication and the instant recognition of a fellow possessor of a bent mind. This recognition is followed by an intense relationship which usually starts and ends suddenly. Uranus in first house opposing 7th house Moon/Jupiter conjunction in Aries, also opposing Mars in Taurus in 7th house.
Very interesting and probably accurate for most, too–
although I have Venus conjunct Uranus out-of-sign and Venus conjunct Neptune in Capricorn, and I feel for me the reverse is mostly true. Often I feel no initial physical chemistry or love at first sight, but I feel like I “know” I will be attracted soon. My friends have been known to make fun of me for my …”Oh, no, It’ll hit me after a couple of dates” statements. Perhaps it’s part of my natural hesitation…
Venus directly conjuncts Uranus natally for me (in Leo) – my husband’s Uranus also conjuncts my Venus.
We are opposites for sure, (Leo and Aquarius) but that spark has never gone away – we still look at each other in that goofy way.
the only venus aspects in my chart are trines with jupiter and saturn. I do have uranus in the 7th house, and venus in aquarius, though.
I wouldn’t say so much for me it is “love at first sight” though at first sight i am definitely able to tell I feel a pull towards someone. For me it’s love at first conversation. The times where I’ve fallen for someone, it happened after our first conversation. If the first time we talk, we sit and talk all night, well then that’s a very good sign ;). My relationships start pretty fast too. Usually me and whoever the person is will be inseperable after that first conversation.
My Taurus Venus is in a wide trine to my Virgo Uranus (and Pluto)… :))
Venus Square Uranus… fun.
Thanks!! Needed to see that!<3
Venus sextile Uranus, exact. 11th/1st Houses. Mars and Mercury in the 12th, sandwiched between for semi-sextiles to both. Uranus rules my 5th House.
I am never attracted to anyone on first sight. Might find someone attractive but I have no interest. Sometimes take years to even develop a relationship, then it becomes intense and “behind the scenes” in a few cases.
Opposition: Venus in 7th hs @ 1 Gemini, EXACTLY opposing Uranus in 1st hs @1 Sag.
I’ve been attracted @ 1st sight, but the person doesn’t reciprocate.
It took my partner and I 4 years to get together – and that’s after having been friends for that long. One would think I romance would’ve developed earlier on, right? The kicker here is, we did get together suddenly – and I was going through a transiting Uranus trine my Venus at that time. The first reaction of our friends, “Is this you two joking around again?”
Most of my relationships have been whirlwind romances though (Venus opp Uranus). They never lasted (except for a 2.5 year relationship).
My Venus is in my 9th house conjunct Saturn Scorpio. My husbands Venus is in the 8th house in Pisces. In our composite Chart Venus is in the 8th house in Capricorn. Aside from the fact our lives are kind of in parallel. We just clicked wasn’t love at first sight but it was something.
Totally exists to me. I’ve got venus trine uranus, so there’s definitely an exchange. I remember meeting my first husband, we were together that first day we met and nearly inseperable for the first 6 months after that.
Uranus on the descendant square Venus, exact. Alas, there is also Neptune involved – big time. Even though I may have an immediate attraction to someone, it has seldom led to a straight forward path! My initial instincts are correct, just depends on what I want at the time of first contact.
Before the internet came along I have known one can fall in love with a character in a book, or at least I can.
But I have not fallen for anyone on the internet because I’m taken. I suppose there have been opportunities, but not really. I’ve never been on a dating site.
When I started seeing my dh around town, here and there for the first time ever, I would get this shudder down my back, not good, not bad, but a recognition of sorts.
I have Venus in the 7th sextile Uranus 🙂
I have Venus inconjunct Uranus natally, and my husband has Venus sextile Uranus. He claimed it was love at first sight for him, for me, it was probably more lust at first sight. There was definitely a bizarre, electric undercurrent to it all though. However, we do have Venus square Uranus in synastry, so that would probably explain why the meeting was so electric,why we became intimate almost immediately,why I became pregnant 2 months later, and we married 5 months later. Yeah, that sounds pretty “Venus/Uranus” to me.
My husband and I became a couple within 15 hours of meeting when we were teens. That was it. He was my boyfriend and I was his girlfriend and we had one hell of a run for about 2 1/2 year… until we went over the cliff, lol.
Yes it can happen, it happened to me, late summer 1970. I walked into a bar on the island, early evening, and clocked eyes with this tall dark handsome stranger, and it was instant ‘love’ – and normally it takes me weeks if not months to get there, and ‘love’ doesn’t properly click in until we have ‘made love’
The weird thing is he was black, and I don’t usually go for black men in the romantic way – I tend to go for my own social type (Merc chart ruler etc). Not only black, but Brazilian, and spoke hardly a word of English. But boy was he drop dead beautiful… We turned to one another, oblivious to all else, spoke for a few minutes … then went our separate ways, having people to meet
… then (as I understood it later) spent most of the night ‘stalking’ one another round town until we met up again, several hours later. Then spent a magic night talking (in French) and making love on the beach, and enjoying the dawn. He had a ticket to ride the next night, so we kissed goodbye – it was the island, and such things happened.
… three days later I was sitting in the town square up on the north-west side of the island where I lived, still amazed by the whole thing. Then a jeep slowed down, stopped, and he jumped out… it happened in Slo Mo! Talk about heart pounding, and karmic certainty. He’d been over the whole island looking for me.
We spent the next two or three weeks locked together, and he wanted to take me back to Sao Paulo. But after three weeks the language barrier proved too much for me – Merc chart ruler!
It was the real thing at the time, though, and the most sudden and total ‘fall’ I’ve ever had (and the least likely)
@Elsa, at least “over the cliff” was not a bottomless pit! LOL!! I mean, yeah, lots of time passed, but here you two are together again :o)!
My hubs has venus square uranus, and his venus is conjunct my sun, so he was wiping his brow when we met,
venus in the 5th opposite uranus.
It’s always at first sight for me. I mean, I take one look and just KNOW I’m doomed. With my ex I was actually pissed – he pulled up on his motorcycle, took off his helmet and I was speechless, thinking “oh fuck! no. No! Nohohohooo!”
Note this isn’t about looks at all. Just an instant sense of knowing.
And like Elsa described, if the feeling is mutual we’re instantly together. I have no understanding or personal feeling for “dating” – I’ve done it but it just doesn’t make any sense to me, as if it doesn’t happen instantly, it never does.
And these relationships have not been fleeting. They tend to last several if not many years, quite happily. The down side is they tend to end just as suddenly as they began. But even after a breakup the feeling of loving a man (even when it was unrequited) never fully leaves me. It’s really nice.
@ Elsa “over the cliff” LOL
Oh, and pretty pic Elsa!
familiar with this in a composite…
Uranus semisquare Venus
Uranus conjunct Pluto
Uranus conjunct Ascendant
all in all a thrilling ride!
Yesss! I’ve seen it. There’s really nothing to not believe in. I mean jeez. I have an uncomplicated (haha) tendency to be immediately attracted to someone, but I can usually tell when the business is there. I have Venus quincunx Uranus. God, I’m not 100% at all. Sometimes it’s not good for me because it tightens my options. I also have a tendency to leave when I am not attracted to the person. I don’t have Venus trine Neptune so I don’t start falling in love with their personal qualities. I think people get better looking the more a Venus trine Neptune loves them. I think it’s take it or leave it when it comes to me and I think it’s a trait I got to get over.
I have Uranus conj my Scorpio DSC (7th use w Juno) so its usually the dangerous type that I’m instantly and fatally attracted to…..
His Taurus trine my uranus and his neptune. Does that mean it was love at first sight? Because it totally was… =)
I mean his Venus trine my uranus and his neptune. Does that mean it was love at first sight? Because it totally was 🙂
I am a female and I have a moon trine uranus. I met someone with venus trine uranus in his chart and we have a venus trine uranus synastry. For the first time I met him, I had a feeling of “I knew this is it”. But I wasn’t expressive as I have mars in cancer. He was very obvious that for the first time he saw me, he had seen his ideal woman. We have a venus (him) and moon (me) conjunction. Double whammy moon trine ascendant and mars trine pluto (double whammy). I can’t tell which one.
Venus squares a male friend’s Uranus (who has captured my interest out of the blue). We’ve known each other for at least a year, perhaps almost 2…strangely enough was never attracted to him in the orthodox sense of the word [not that I remember] though obviously as time passed, our relationship got more platonic..recently turned physically (hence my interest).
What saturns childs/plutos lover rings true for me – Sun in Libra [Venus in Libra too] square Uranus…swinging from “intense attraction” [Scorpio gets involved somewhere] to a sort of detachment. Every attraction is postulated as the one; just learnt to let it happen haha!
can someone explain to me what it means to have venus square jupiter? does the aspect make one feel as though committed love stagnates and restricts? I also have venus square moon. I find it VERY difficult to commit and be consistent with my feelings. I tend to be loving in general but to no one in particular (except some friends, lovers for a very short time)
my venus also conjucts neptune and uranus.
Anybody can interpret this?
I love that story! <3
I have Uranus trine Venus with Venus in my 5H. It's happened to me and it's also happened that someone is around and around and I hardly think about them then one day I would wake up and oh boy! But then my Venus is in Capricorn so it can be super slow and cautious on action.
Awesome stories !
Venus in Scorpio/3h semi square Uranus in Cappy/5h
Venus also sextiles Neptune in 5h, Virgo Asc, conjunct Pluto in 3h [a tight orb] and Mars Libra/2h square Uranus [same tight orb].
You can imagine how this is ! If there is no first time chill on my back, and profound attraction, it never will be !
It seems that with all these sexual aspects, I am definitely rocking worlds and sending sexual vibes [so they say !] and I instantly tell if the attraction is mutual and never got wrong about that.
Unfortunately, what starts abruptly, well..you know the drill.
Just found my man has venus square Uranus. Makes soo much sense. Plus he has these pleasing trines while I’m wrapped up in a lot of squares. Gonna try and figure this one out!
What about Venus inconjunct Uranus? I can’t seem to find any information about it! Anyone?
I have Uranus in the 1st house conjunct (exact) Pluto squaring my Venus by a wide degree. Regardless my “love at first site” tendencies are real and DEEP (Pluto). I know if I like someone immediately and often wonder if I have passed up people I should not have. Oh well…such is life! 😀
Thanks Elsa! Love your blog. I am a long time fan.