Dark Venus asks:
“Are Venus-Pluto aspects really such a ‘scary’ thing to have natally? Or are we just a misunderstood bunch?”
Good question! I’d say, you’re scary to some and compelling to others. It depends on how comfortable a person is being uncomfortable because you’re guaranteed to consistently put “the other” in their un-comfort zone (see tag).
Some people enjoy this, others no so much.
As for being misunderstood, you can only understand Venus-Pluto to a degree and then another degree and then another degree. Even if you devote your life to this, you will only scratch the surface. That alone alone is enough to make the average person uncomfortable.
What do the rest of you think when you think “Venus-Pluto”?