Ayla writes on Love Tips – Venus Neptune:
“Love, at its core, is unconditional. If people are attaching conditions to it, it’s not love anymore. “I’ll only love you if you do [x]” is a mockery.
I have a crippled Venus (in Aries square Mars, Uranus, Saturn, and Neptune in 1st house Sag and square Chiron in 7th house Gemini) and even I know that withholding love kills it and giving it away keeps it alive. Yeah, you get hurt sometimes. So what? It’s not gonna kill you. (Unless you get involved with a serial killer or something I guess.)”
“(Unless you get involved with a serial killer or something I guess.)”
And even then, you die with love in your heart… which is probably better than living with a heart full of hate.
“And even then, you die with love in your heart… which is probably better than living with a heart full of hate.”
This is assuming you haven’t stumbled upon his cache of bodies before he gets you, right?
Actually I don’t think there are any conditions at all. I have been beaten senseless – beaten nearly to death and it had no impact whatsoever on the the love I feel in my heart. However, I don’t advocate doormat behavior!
Acting as a doormat is pathological! If you find yourself constantly falling in love with people who abuse you, then you’ve got a problem, get some help.
But if you are merely with people (flawed as we all are), then why not just love them?