“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.”
I just read Elsa’s post on “Playing To Your Strengths To Attract A Man“. One bit of advice I give in regard to all different kinds of projects is “take baby steps.” Don’t try to eat the elephant in one sitting. Just start with the first plateful. So my advice, and a great first “baby step” in this area, is to do one thing today, just one thing to make yourself more appealing. Out of all the many things you could do, how about this: Look at your rising sign and your Venus sign and think of one thing you could do to your appearance today that will blend these energies and make you more attractive.
Your rising sign shows your appearance, and your Venus describes your aesthetic nature. For instance, my rising sign is Leo, dramatic, fiery, fun. My Venus sign is Aries, the head, sporty and simple. I’m going to put on some makeup and do my hair today in a way that is fiery, fun, sporty and simple! How easy is that! Just the act (the ascendant is Mars-ruled) of focusing on making your appearance (rising) more pleasant (Venus) will enhance your general energy of attractiveness. Focusing your own energy on yourself, valuing yourself, goes a long way in making yourself more attractive to others. I’m not going to say that physical attractiveness is the most important thing in this area, but I do think that taking care of yourself whether it’s physical or internal is a great boost to capitalize on what makes you special. Doing something positive for yourself in any way radiates outward and enhances your appeal!
What one thing, however small, can you do today to enhance your appeal and boost your energy? Where is your own rising and Venus?