I have Uranus in my 7th house. I can get along with pretty much anyone. I’m highly to relationship, especially in passing.
In other words, if a person wants to experiment and see how we might get along, I’d show up.
It’s been awhile since I had a relationship FAIL. But it’s happened now and I’ll tell you why.
I can’t stand being held when I want to go. Or when I need to go. Or whatever it is.
When I say I would like to get off the phone, it means I want to get off the phone. It does not mean I want to talk for thirty more minutes and I certainly don’t want to hear how sad you are that I am getting off the phone…uh, are you kidding me?
The same thing happens in person. “I am going now…”
“You’re not going now.”
“Well, yes. I would like to go now. I am out of time. I need to go…I want to leave now.”
“But I don’t want you to go. I want you to stay here with me. Please? Please don’t go yet…”
This keeps happening to me. It’s happened to me ten times with the same person and guess what? I’m no longer going to spend anytime with this person. Because no matter how much I give, it’s never enough.
I realize it’s my 7th house Uranus. I just can’t stand being clung to. Just shackle me why don’t you? Just strap me down. I swear it feels like being tied up in some psycho’s house. “But you just got here…”
“I got here three hours ago…”
If you know someone with Uranus in the 7th house (or the equivalent) please, please, if they tell you they need to leave, don’t stand in their way. Or they will grow to really loathe you.
It’s a matter of time until they look at you like a giant bear trap and cut a wide circle ’round you so they won’t be caught.
This sound familiar to anyone?