Uranus in Taurus: Love Reversal – Commitment-Phobics Marry

reversal of fortuneUranus transiting Taurus will turn the tables in the Venus-ruled realms of love and money. You’ll see many reversals in fortune with Uranus in Taurus. What we don’t know is who or what or when or how!

The perennially partnered may find themselves alone, while the consistently single experiment with, err… marriage! If you’re into things that are wickedly quirky, this should be fun to watch.

I wrote this in 2019. It’s 2021 now and I feel people are changing their views around what and who they value.  Venus Uranus aspects signal commitment-phobia but with Uranus in Taurus, I think people have want to have some love in the bank!

Have you witnessed anything like this, yet?  Tell us!

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Uranus in Taurus: Love Reversal – Commitment-Phobics Marry — 39 Comments

  1. Yes.
    I’ve been single since 2015. Now within the last months has not only moving in together possible, but so to is having another child and marriage.

    In 2016 I dropped everything to try and start a business with friends. Things weren’t going right but I couldn’t leave until I discovered I had a son. So I lost money, job, friends to be with family.
    After many battles, my son and his mom get along very well and she was has decided to recently leave her situation so we can be a family.
    Many unexpected things have been happening lately, and I like it thus far.

    • Sadly, I am still waiting for my permanent singleness to end in 2021…but there’s probably no hope of that at least until/unless the pandemic ends.

  2. Haven’t had a partner since 2014. I’ts not even something I can envision at this point. I’m certainly not looking for anyone. Uranus by transit will be in my 7th house sometime in July. It will also conjunct my natal Sun, North Node, and descendant,so who knows? I’m fine on my own.

    • Klara – I bet love will suddenly (Uranus) come to you (Sun) this summer! It’s almost fated (North Node – significant life experience; and DC – house of partnerships)!

      • I was thinking the exact same thing. But because Uranus is involved I bet it will be someone completely different from what Klara has experienced or could imagine. And it could happen very suddenly.

    • Me too: 7th/descendant and Sun early on and Venus at the end.

      We shall see. If I still have no options 7 years from now then I am the most hopeless person 😛

  3. I am so surprised how much money someone will pay to have a kid move out I thought nature got it right with puberty making the parent and their house the place the kid outgrew and then all on their own they build hopes and dreams and cash to escape the family
    Never realized the rich had to pay millions and bribe others to help encourage their kids to the go it on their own. Not to laugh but the poor don’t have that problem.hilarious

    • and cultures,@Raerae. not just poor (generally speaking) but u can be rich but it is culture that dont want their children leaving the nest.i think some cultures just like to keep their children close,like living in the same roof even if the roof is a mansion lol all across the next east wing ;p

  4. Uranus will soon oppose my natal uranus and square Dsc and natal Mars…
    Killed by electricity and bad men in my life? Let’s see.
    Any hints, please?

  5. Yes, this interpretation of Uranus through Taurus appears spot on!. I know of two long term singles, which now in mid forties have suddenly met “the one”. One was a self confessed committment phobe who is now willing to live overseas for love. I agree that people’s luck can change with this transit.

  6. My experience with this transit, or any uranus transit, is that there is a period of uncertainty and being unsettled. I have not experienced it as a reversal in fortune which sounds like a shift that transforms your life forever. And just because something changes I’d say don’t expect that change to be stable. Things can change again with an uranus transit – it brings uncertainty and a period of instability. In the long run, it seems that uranus periods free a person in some way although, at the time, it may not be experienced that way.

    • I like this and completely agree based upon the last 3 yrs., the moment of 0Tau. Now, emotions push these inner shadows out to creates waves of change. Unconscious changes by the hurt ego possibly

  7. I was excited because … single and challenged in the pocketbook for about 10 years. Working on the stuff I can, rolling with the waves, when I’m out of courage or ideas just being stupidly cheerful and helpful etc. Too busy coping to date. I would dearly appreciate some sparkle. Then I saw your reply that it will affect early degrees of Taurus, and my Merc and Venus are hanging around 21 and 16 respectively. 🙁 However I do have Virgo at 1 degree in Uranus, fifth house. I am praying for a positive switcheroo! Love or money, I don’t mind. 😉 Could this have an impact?

  8. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 years. Was not in a hurry to get married. But, just a few weeks ago, getting marriage just sounded like a good idea. I’m looking forward to it next year! I Taurus in the early degrees falls in my 5th house though, not 7th. Wonder if it makes any difference?

  9. I have had Uranus on top of my sun (25 degrees Aries) MC (26 degrees) Mercury (1degree Taurus) conjunction for the last couple years – my life as I was living it was decimated. I now stand in a very different place, absolutely changed. I feel fragile and raw. Not sure how to step forward into this new self, i’v reframed everything. I’m hoping Uranus through my 10th house will help.., I do have Saturn at 21 degrees Taurus… thoughts? Hopefully some relief anywhere in here? I felt like I was plugged into an electrical socket for most of my Uranus conjunction. I need a break!

  10. Uranus has entered my 12th where it will first oppose Mars (3.31 degrees Scorpio 6th), then conjunct Jupiter (5.32), Mercury (12.30), Moon (15.01), Venus (22.12), PF (24.36), Sun (1 Gem16) and Asc (10 Gem 51). And lets not forget sq Asc/MC just before conjuncting Venus. Been divorced since end of 2012 and recently had my income reduced a good bit. I will obviously be a completely different person in 7 years. Not looking good for the home team. ????

  11. I hope so.

    Have had a reversal of fortune when after a 4 year struggle I suddenly got a tax-return of 6000 euro’s!!

    Hoping for the same feeling in my love-life.

  12. Yes, I got a letter saying I owed money, which is fairly unusual. Then, a few days later, this Monday, I phoned them up and found out it was the psychopath ex’s debt and remembered I paid my half at the time. The debt was from 2010 when we split up.
    But that same Monday (25th) I learned of the death of my loveliest ever customer and although she told me she was ready and told people to be happy for her it was impossible not to cry.

  13. Sitting in my 2nd I hope this will reduce the financial pressure I’m feeling now with rising expenses. May have to get that second job at age 60! Unfortunately Neptune my Asc. ruler sits opp in the 8th. Yikes.

  14. It will be interesting when Uranus is opp. my NN. Uranus is now just starting transits to my 6th and will also run over my SN. Time to leave work or find new work? I could retire as well. Uranus will also trine, at some juncture, my natal Venus (2nd House) and Moon (10th) so sudden changes in money and work are possible.

  15. Hmm, I am thinking something unusual and big will happen with relationships, career, money. I’ve never married. Uranus in Taurus is transiting my 10th and is trine my 2nd house Virgo stellium (all between 3-15 degrees).

  16. Lost my husband on April 9th of 2019. The longest amount of time between relationships has been 2 years since I was 14 years old. It has been difficult to be so alone.

  17. Almost 2 yrs ago to the day (8/21/2019), My partner of 6 yrs, who is been living with for 3, and who i was engaged to for 1.5yrs said he was going to bed. I said I’d be in in 10 min. When I went to our bedroom, all the lights were on, the Tv was on, he was not in the room. I searched everywhere, even outside in a storm, where I saw his car was gone.

    He had snuck out of our home, like a thief in the night, and he never returned again.

    Hes a Scorpio. A coward. And a weak pathetic piece of sht.

    He went back to mommy and daddy’s house where he remains to this day. He left all of his things behind.

    He left me there when I had just run out of unemployment, while we were living in a $3000 a month rental home, where (prior to losing my job and running out of unemployment, he had refused to pay even his 1/3rd (we had a roommate for a time) of the rent. He refused to pay more than $750 a month. …I* paid the difference. The roommate move out, I paid my 1k, I paid his 1k, AND i paid the difference of $250 for my ex fiancé’s 1k. So he abandoned me, 1 week after my bday, the night before I had broken my foot. I couldn’t walk, drive, move. And unemployed, with a $3000 a month rental payment dumped on me. I had saved thousands and thousands of dollars to give to him as a wedding present as a down payment on a home, something he’d wanted very badly. It was gone with the blink of an eye.

    What he did traumatized me, I remain devastated and totally destroyed by what he did even now, 2 yrs later. Since I couldn’t move, due to the broken foot nor grocery shop. I had to pay substantially more to have everything delivered. I paid for all the care of our dogs whom he abandoned – one of which spent 3 months waiting by the door for hour every afternoon expecting him to come home, and spent the rest of the time watching out the window for him…only to never return.

    It was horrible, because of all the reasons I’d expect him to not disappear, SHE was the one i would’ve wagered My Life on. They did everything together. He loved her as much as anyone can love any living being. …or so I thought.

    She stopped eating after awhile. Starving herself.

    Only weeks prior, he – completely unprompted by myself – volunteered such platitudes as, on one night, after I’d been depressed about my trouble finding employment, I said “I’m sorry I’m like this. I’d understand if you wanted to call this off”. He took my face in his hands and said, “I love you. I will always love you. I will never leave. I am in this. With you. Good or bad, I am in this for the long haul. Because a life without you, is no life at all.”

    A week prior to the day he left, as a bday thing for me, we’d finally gotten around to getting my engagement ring properly fitted. The SAME DAY he snuck out of our home like a thief in the night, he came home from work and walked up to me. He’d picked my ring up, you see. He took it out of his pocket. As I reached for it, he pulled his hand away and said “No. I’m going to be your husband. And you will be my wife. I* want to be the only person to ever put this ring on your finger.” And so he did.

    It was not more than 4 hrs later that he snuck out. Never to return. After 6 yrs.

    2 days after he left, I finally got him on the phone. Which is when he told me that I “pressured him” into proposing (I did no such thing. I attempted to end our relationship on 3 separate occasions. I was kind about it. I said “I love you, but I don’t think we want the same things, or that we are not on the same path. And that is ok. I love you no less. You don’t have to leave my home (at that time, he and I were living in MY house. He, rent and utility free). You are welcome to stay, to take your time to find a place that is right for you. I love you no less. But I want go move forward. You don’t seem inclined towards that. That is ok. It is what it is. No big deal. Sometimes you meet people and your on the same timeline and path, others you’re not.” Each time he begged and pleaded for me to give him yet another chance. Swearing that he was indeed on the same timeline and path as I, he was just planning to make this a special surprise, a special moment for us both. 3x he asked for more time until X date. X date would come and go each time. Finally, he had his final chance. I didn’t even think anything of it. I was ok with it all, much tho I loved him. … And then he did propose. But I never pressured him.

    He also told me that he didn’t think he loved me and that he hadn’t for a long time. Several months after saying that, I brought it up, to which he replied “I NEVER said I didn’t love you!” I said : “Oh. Yes. You damn well did.”

    See, he had said it in anger. Which is why he’d forgotten saying it. He didn’t believe that he’d had ever said such a thing to me because he knew that if he had. I would’ve gone cold on him in the blink of an eye and never thought of him again.

    But I didn’t. Because I was so traumatized, I literally couldn’t and didn’t believe what was happening.

    So the very fact that I was communicating with him enough to actually remind him of what he said, it was like in that moment something shifted. He realized that he could say things like that, he could manipulate me through my fear of abandonment and he could say things that would hurt me terribly and make me miss him and pine for him, I could hear him realizing this in those few seconds of silence after I reminded him of what he’d said.

    This made him feel power over me. Which made him feel strong. The longer he held out the stronger he felt.

    Yet, he twice came to hang out with me over the course of the following 4 months after he had left, including NYE. Both times, when I said I was tired and going to go to bed — which meant “time to leave” — the followed me to what used to be OUR bedroom. Got into bed and slept next to me (nothing else happened), as though nothing had changed.

    That NYE of 2019, was the last time I ever saw him. The following day, as he went to leave he said he had fun (he also broke down into tears crying when he saw my dog when he arrived the night before) and suggested we take my dog to the park on Thursday. I had caved a few days later and asked him to please come back home. He kept saying unclear things, “I don’t think it works” blah blah, where I would reply “It worked for 6yrs. If you were unhappy, all you had to do was speak to me about it. But u pretended and thought things would ….change? All u had to do was talk to me”. I finally said “do you love me?” (Remembering that last conversation we’d had) He said: “I think if I did, I wouldn’t have left”. I said: “you’ve left before and hadn’t stopped loving me.” (This was before we lived together and never happened again for 3 yrs, once we’d moved in. ….Probably because I paid for everything).

    He texts once in awhile. He watches me online. He’ll text me and ask me questions about video games I’m playing, which he could only know by following me on the social network of PlayStation. Stuff like that.

    For 2 yrs now – he volunteered this information to me a few months ago when I asked how he was doing via text – he’s STILL been living at his parents house. He’s about to turn 36. He is living in his mothers “crafting room” (a nice way of saying her messy storage room full of wrapping paper boxes and ribbons), sleeping on a camping “COT”. And he does not have a car. He “borrows his dads Toyota ….sometimes. When he’s not driving his lawn company van where he works 3 quarters of the yr. The last quarter he goes on unemployment each yr, during the winter.”

    I have a PlayStation app, 99% of all days, including weekend nights, he sits in his moms crafting room, playing video games. All – and I mean EVERY SINGLE ONE – of his friends are married and have multiple children. I see their pics on fb. The entire group and their families …all together. He’s never in any photos. Because he’s not invited. Because he doesn’t have children. Or a wife.

    I’m so sick of hearing about scorpios and their “amputating’ of people from their lives. It’s always written about as though they are superior and the person subjected to it deserve it. It’s cruel. It’s PATHETIC. And it shows how small, weak, and cowardly they are. Its cruel. Cruelty is cowardice. People act cruel when they feel powerless. Kicking a dog doesn’t make a person special. It’s cruel. It’s cowardly. And it shows how small and weak they truly are. So much so that they have to hurt something ….just because they can. To feel strong. It’s disgusting. There is nothing to be idealized about AMPUTATING people. Especially people who love you or trust you to be careful with their hearts.

    He ruined my life.

    I’ve been completely and utterly alone for 2 yrs. I lost my father to COVID. I lost my only family, my best friend to his new jealous crazy fiancée. I never heat from my actual family. I’ve gone months without having any reason to leave my apartment. Ive gone months where the only living things ive spoken to are my dogs. And the only thing in my life who answers back is my Alexa.

    Ive been partnered back to back since I was 15yrs old.

    All of my friends have families. They’re too busy to bother with me. I turned 40 days ago. I have one ovary and severe endometriosis and this man stole the last 6 – now 8 (from the trauma recovery alone, which isn’t complete) – years of my life, which were my last best hope of ever conceiving a child.

    Im pretty sure I’ll be alone for the rest of my life now. I don’t even have the drive to find a new partner or to date. It’s been 2 yrs. I’m terribly lonely. I’m sad all the time. I’ve tried everything. Nothing makes it better. In the blink of an eye…i lost everything. And 2 yrs have come and gone and I don’t feel any better. Medications and therapists dont help. I miss him as much as I did the day he left. And everyday I wonder if it’s the day he’ll come back. And I know how stupid that is.

    If anyone wants the info below for research purposes, be My guest.

    Im a Léo Sun (26° on thé 8th house), an Aqua moon (11° in 1st/ sometimes 2nd), Cap rising at 7.5°. Cancer is my 7th house with Mars at 17°.

    I have mc 2° Scorpio/ IC at 2° Taurus — Uranus is transiting my 4th.

    Birth info:
    8.14.81
    Livingston, NJ
    5:24pm — in case these events spark curiosity in anyone.

    May be of some note: My dad died after fighting Covid for a year on Dec 1st, 2020. He was born 12/16/1942 in Austria.

    15 more days and he would’ve been 79 years old.

    Saturn tore thru my 1st house and stole EVERYTHING and EVERYONE from me.

    Uranus in Taurus in my 4th, left me 100% alone for the first time in my entire 40 yrs of life. If not for my dogs, I don’t know if I’d even be here myself after all of that. But they are the only reason I get up each day, or go buy food. They are the only living things that seek me out or communicate with me.

    Everything, everyone else? Just -poof!- gone. There one day. Never Seen or heard from again.

  18. @StarF I’m sorry for the loss of your father. And for all the pain you’ve been through. It’s unbelievable what this man/ex has been up to. Besides all the pain and leaving (what a most ridiculous and immature thing to do-). It’s not that far fetched to say, financial abuse is also a thing. He took advantage of your good heart (venus virgo trine chiron and square neptune).
    I really hope things will get better and you’ll see that you deserve so much more than that. A good man, a loving man, an honest man, someone who can pull up his own weight. 40 is not late at all for life to get moving again. Even if you feel hopeless right now. Give time some time. Saturn ruled people need time to bloom and re-bloom despite all challenges. Even if what strangers on the internet say doesn’t make you feel better in the grand scheme of things, I’m really glad that you’re here! Please give the dogs a gentle hug and a bop on their sniffers from me! Take care~

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