I’ve always had trouble making and then keeping friendship alive. Sometimes friendships have ended so suddenly it feels akin to a break up. Relationships appearing and disappearing without warning.
Anyhoo, for a long time I beat myself up about it, but now I think I’m okay. I’m toying with the idea that there’s nothing wrong with not having friends. I’ve got a close relationship with my fiancÆ’
My editor, HQ who told me once regarding friendship, “Life is hard and I can’t see trying to go it alone…” I agree with him! And though I understand there are lots of people who manage to get along with no close friendships, I don’t think this is healthy. Human beings need other human beings.
Now specific to you… well I see Saturn in your 11th house (friendship). Saturn restricts until and unless you face your fear and work on whatever issues are thwarting you. So reading this, I am left feeling you are trying to avoid your work. And since you are writing a Saturn figure… me, what do you think I am going to tell you? I’m going to tell you, wrong-o! You do not get to cop out.
And if you need reinforcement on this: your natal Saturn is in Taurus (relationships). Capricorn AKA as Saturn rules your 7th house (relationships) and further, Saturn is transiting your 2nd house (Venus / relationships).
So considering this theme repeats everywhere I look, what do you think? Think you’re really a nomad? With a dependent Cancer rising? ::smiles:: I don’t. I think you’re hurting and your attitude is a defense mechanism.
I think you’re hurting and trying to skirt this issue. And I don’t think it’s in your best interest. Though painful short term, I think you will be much better off to ask yourself, “Why don’t I have friends, and what am I going to do about it?”
I know this hurt, but there is a path to comfort. You need only choose to do the work.