I was talking to a gal about the fact she does not seem to have the ability to leave a relationship. The men have to leave her, typically on their own volition though it would be hard to say that she has no play in the situation.
I’m exactly opposite her. I’ve never had a problem ending a relationships (where there were no children were involved).
Either extreme is probably not optimal but I when I imagine wanting out of a relationship, but being dependent on the other person to end the thing, I cringe. I just can’t imagine that kind of powerlessness which is easy to understand, given I have action-oriented, Mars in Libra in the “leaving-ninth-house”!
I do think people tend to be one way or the other.
Who ends most of your relationships? You or the other? Can you tie this to your chart?