With Jupiter going direct and the eclipse, my 8 year relationship came apart. Surprisingly, I have been mostly thrilled! But it has also left me wanting to push my former partners buttons. It is as if I want to ensure he won’t slide back into the picture in a few weeks, and I feel this is the best way.
However, I am starting to wonder if I am being too harsh. I am a Cancer sun, Scorpio rising and he is an Aquarius sun, Capricorn rising. We both have Libra moons. I guess what I want to know is just how likely it is for me to be able to really hurt him? He acts emotionally distant in general. I sure don’t want him back but I don’t want to push it too far either.
From Birmingham, Alabama
Hi, Birmingham. You didn’t send your birth data which hinders me greatly in seeing what’s going here. But I am still going answer your questions.
I am starting to wonder if I am being too harsh.
If you are harsh at all, that’s too harsh! What’s up with you that you can justify hurting someone because you fear you lack the self-control to make the separation permanent?
How likely it is for me to be able to really hurt him?
Seeing as he is human and most likely not a psychopath, it’s very likely that you will and have hurt him.
Think about it. He invested eight years in you…then you kick his teeth down his throat? Do you not worry about blowback from this? Karma of any kind?
I sure don’t want him back but I don’t want to push it too far either.
If you don’t want him back, then leave him alone. You’re treating worse than I would a dog. Sorry, but criminy.
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