Tips On Attracting Love: Veneer Won’t Cut It

Libra barbieSaturn is wrapping up in Virgo, and a lot of my consultations have been focused on gathering data and coming up with ideas in regards to Saturn in Libra. This makes sense as we’ve already had a taste of Saturn in Libra.

With Saturn in Libra, some  were introduced to feelings of loneliness, perhaps for the first time in their lives. Some became aware of their age as they considered leaving (or entering) a relationship and there were any number of other manifestations. When Saturn went retrograde, the pressure to resolve this stuff fell off.

With Saturn in Virgo, people are now thinking these things through.  I have Mars in Libra and I was working on a series, Love Tips and Tactics with Saturn in Libra and I want to take this back up now.

I’ll start by mentioning something most won’t. Yes. When it comes to partnering, your appearance matters and this will be particularly true with Saturn in Libra.

Now this doesn’t mean you have to look great, perfect, and beautiful because as many realize, being inordinately beautiful is a handicap or a curse as well as a gift.  If a woman is too good looking she is shunned by other women and pursued by men as a trophy in many cases. I don’t think it is all it is cracked up to be, that’s for sure. Beauty is so fleeting.

If you want to attract with Saturn in Libra, integrity is key when it comes to appeal.  The inside should match the outside. How you present should be congruent with who you are on the inside.

If you are a rock star, you should probably look like one. If you are not and you dress as one, even if this has worked in the past, it is not likely to work with Saturn in Libra.

Others are stuck in a time warp. Most definitely check your age against your wardrobe. I may still have the legs to wear a short skirt but should I? Not unless I want to look silly.

Venus rules tastes and with Saturn in Libra, people are going to reject trash and go for class.  Not just appropriate clothing but posture.

Humility is also attractive but a humble veneer won’t cut it.  Whatever it is you put out there, someone will probably like it as long as it is real.

Does your look have integrity?



Tips On Attracting Love: Veneer Won’t Cut It — 16 Comments

  1. My look most definitely has integrity – my style is rarely influenced much by “what’s in”. I know what looks good on me, and what does not. I have always been drawn to very feminine clothing, that accentuates my very feminine (curvy) body.

    I am not looking for a partner (happily married) , but out of curiosity I looked up where the current planets were when my husband and I first met, and Saturn was in Libra. So I suppose this is our relationship’s Saturn Return, which is kind of exciting.

  2. I think it does, my look is really individuated, I love clothes and dressing up is play for me. I can wear almost anything, but that is sort of my style. I think I do have integrity.

  3. I wear what feels comfortable. I haven’t a clue what I look like to other people, so don’t know if my look has integrity or not. I’m not sure if I even know what I look like. Hah. Progressed chart has Neptoon in the 1st.

  4. eek, standing here in my platform shoes, jeans, and summer top with my painted toes and toe rings. Had a lecture from the husband on dressing age appropriate. If dressing with integrity means dressing the way that makes me feel attractive and comfortable, I dress wtih integrity. If it means dressing the way people expect, I don’t.

  5. I’m with opal I wear what feels comfortable but I can also mix and match to my hearts content.. so at work I wear “work clothes” but jazz it up with accessories that I might of worn out to the club the other night… nothing too outlandish but bright enough to make me shine a little where ever I may be 😉

  6. I think I dress with integrity. I have Libra rising and have always dressed in classic, feminine clothing. Clean lines, good tailoring and expensive assessories. No toe rings or bimbo outfits here, ever!

  7. Saturn rising, I think I dress with integrity, although not in uber fashion. But I insist on comfort and sometimes on hiding, I am afraid of flashy..

  8. Well… I have experimented like crazy with how I dress / present and had some wild experiences because of it. This goes on still, today. I think I might write about this stuff for the hell of it. I never mind taking something on from a new angle.

  9. I would looooooove to see the day when veneer won’t cut it! I’ve seen empires built on veneer, marriages, careers, you name it, I’ve seen it.
    The idea of attracting love with integrity is hot and I am looking forward to see how it unfolds.

  10. Wow! My friend is worried about the fact he’s getting older and thinks that women my age should not wear jeans, at least not the low hip hugger types and said I should get men’s cause they are cheaper! I said I wouldn’t get caught in those but if you have a nice figure why not? He said e disagreed..Then my ex is giving me his hiking shoes…why do men want me to dress like a man, especially now? Authentic?(Venus in Capricorn).

  11. I like your post…I have many friends that have Mars in Libra, how I describe this placement is that there are people that you sleep with and then there are the people that we actually fall in love with….and women with this placement can categorize it a lot easier than most.

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