As Saturn in Libra squares Pluto in Capricorn in the coming months the reality (Saturn/Capricorn) of the shadow side (Pluto) of love (Libra) is going to be your face. Currently Mercury in Libra squaring is squaring Pluto which opens the door for a dialogue on this topic.
With Pluto involved the deeper you go, the deeper it leads you so I won’t hope to cover this in any way but I can provoke your thinking as someone did mine when they asked the soldier a beguiling question: “So who wants to get married more, you or her?”
I was taken aback. My first impulse was defensive (Saturn). What the hell kind of question is that? It seemed undermining somehow, at least potentially so I went after her motive (Pluto).
It turns out she is just some sort of a quirky mind so once I’d cleared her of wrongdoing, I thought about her question.
The first thing I determined was that the soldier and I do not have this kind of imbalance. We both want to get married which is what he told her but as soon as I confirmed this I realized it was not usual. Generally speaking I think that typically there is one partner more interested in marriage then the other which opened a whole can of worms for me.
For example if you marry in a situation like this, is your marriage doomed? How is that for a question?
I can’t say that I know the answer but I will tell you what I did turn up as fact. Being willing to marry someone and wanting to marry them are two very different things.