“I love all my kids the same.” Most mothers say this and perhaps it’s true from a certain angle. But from other angles it hard to substantiate and in some cases it’s flat out obvious a mother prefers one child … Read More…
Tag Archives: Shadow
Cap writes on Does Everyone Have A Dark Side? “…I definitely have anger. I wouldn’t call it “anger issues” – although, its been a little bit lately due to hormones and sleep deprivation, but I am aware of it. I … Read More…
I feel I have a negative “affective presence” at this time. I’ve just learned this term. It means, my presence has a negative affect on the group. I don’t think it’s always been this way but it’s this way now. … Read More…
I vaguely remember the first time it was suggested that I “go with the flow”. It irritated me at the time. Maybe it’s because I’m earthy? But I did listen and as years went by, I met with this message … Read More…
When under stress, it’s common to choose a shadow person to blame. I do it. I bet you do it too. You’re all keyed up so you start thinking about this person you don’t like. It distracts you. This is … Read More…
I continue to be sick of the boring bickering back and forth that has consumed our culture. I have written about gaslighting for nearly two decades. I’ve also written about how important it is to control your own mind. That … Read More…
I speak with a lot of people about their relationships. I keep in mind, I’m only hearing one side of a story! It’s easy to become invested in one side of an issue. Your friends will usually side with you. … Read More…