Dear Elsa, You’ve written a lot about projecting shadows on others. I’m not sure if this is the same thing, but when a person falls in love, everything about the love object seems perfect. Then after a breakup, it’s possible … Read More…
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I use Aweber to send my newsletters. I have a love/hate thing with them. On the love side, they are reliable. I’ve been using them for nearly ten years. They’ve only had one significant outage during that time frame, due … Read More…
A lot of people need a villain in their life. They need a bad guy; someone to carry the shadow or the blame. Someone they can be above or feel better than. This is an awful handicap over time because … Read More…
Currently, Jupiter in Libra is opposing a stellium in Aries, me, Me, ME! Jupiter rules stories. The other day, I deleted a thread in the forum. It as addressed to me. It had my name on it. “This is to … Read More…
Hi Elsa, How can a person tell the difference between an actual external conflict and projection/unprocessed shadow work that we’re reacting to? When do we try to solve things externally and when do we look within to what the situation … Read More…
mudlikesubstance wrote on Facts Of My Life: “…As for the lesson of assuming that others are like us. That strikes me as a very important lesson here. I make that assumption and it turns around and bites me. I am … Read More…
I was talking to my husband and Jilly about a gal who’s upset with me. It’s a story I’ve told over and over on this blog. If there is a group of people and someone needs to throw a shadow … Read More…