Pluto in the 7th house can create some pretty gross behavior. Projection, manipulation, control. But sometimes we do the most damage when we think we’re doing everything right. Have you seen this pattern in action? Tell us your Venus/Pluto tales!
Pluto in the 7th house can be an explosive situation. There’s potential for drama, manipulation, and betrayal, to name a few. So how on earth do you deal with it? Do you project your shadow? What’s in your 7th house?
Dear Elsa, You’ve written a lot about projecting shadows on others. I’m not sure if this is the same thing, but when a person falls in love, everything about the love object seems perfect. Then after a breakup, it’s possible to become repulsed by that very same person. What’s at work here? Is it projecting
Hi Elsa, I am feeling really funky lately and it’s a feeling that comes back to me repeatedly. I get very paranoid about my relationship and tend to either lash out in anger or sink into depression. I try not to do either but it seems sometimes it can’t be helped and then I begin
Dear Elsa, I’ve always struggled in finding fulfilling and harmonious relationships. I tend to want too much, too fast, too soon. This either pushes people away all together, or leads me to find people who exploit my dependency needs, sometimes abusively.
This was for a gal with an exceptionally complex chart. She’s got a strong “till death do we part” signature in her chart”, but she’s also quite independent. She’s young (25 years old) and starting to wonder what her relationship life might look like. Saturn is transiting her 7th house, it’s time to figure this
Hi, Elsa. I have a 7th house Sun natally and getting along with people was a major concern in my life. I did my best and all in vain. A couple of years ago I stopped trying hard and started to be what and who I am. I checked: It was the first time progressed Pluto was exact on progressed
