Hi Elsa, I’ve been the same man for 3 years, and while I love him very deeply I continually manage to sabotaged the relationship. I’ve broken up with him 4 times and each time has been for a different reason. … Read More…
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Dear Elsa, I don’t enjoy breaking hearts, but I’m ruthlessly efficient at it. I’m a self-proclaimed commitment phobic and I’m not entirely sure that I’m fed up of being one just yet. But if I were fed up with being … Read More…
I have been a life-long commitment-phobic. I don’t think this is like alcoholism – once a commitment-phobic, always a commitment-phobic. I didn’t know this until I’d actually resolved this myself. It hit me the other night, this is the first … Read More…
Okay here’s a problem for y’all. I’ve got a gal trying to break a long-standing pattern of opting to go with Danger Boy. You know the type. He’s got an edge, might be moody, definitely non-committal, intermittently withholding, secretive, etc. … Read More…
Dear Elsa, I am in love with a friend who has been my friend for seven years. When I met him he was dating my best friend. They broke up and we started talking two years ago. The relationship quickly … Read More…
Dear Elsa, I met someone about a month ago, and he is a nice guy. At first I thought, there’s no way I’d date this guy. Well, we seem to be dating. But now I feel totally smothered and almost … Read More…
With Saturn in Libra, many are trying this relationship thing for the first time in a long time. This may help. Are you a commitment phobic considering settling into relationship? How are you faring? You may also like LIBRA – … Read More…