Yes, Libra, you’re nice. Now learn to say no! Related Scorpio Amputates But How Would You Prefer Your Lover Leave You? Is It Good If Both Partners Have Saturn in the 7th house? Learn About Synastry, The Astrology Of Relationships … Read More…
Tag Archives: co-dependence
Hi Elsa: I’ve noticed that in relationships, I tend to be happy to adapt to the other person a lot…. friendship, family, romance, whatever. They adapt too, of course, because every relationship has some level of compromise. But I’m perfectly … Read More…
This is one of those risky topics. It gets into people’s un-comfort zones. Fact is, you’re uncomfortable whether I say anything or not. You just don’t know it. If your icky feelings are subconscious, this does not mean they don’t … Read More…
Astrologer, CF Perez, made an interesting statement about inequity in relationships. She said, when one person in a relationship gave far more than the other, the person who was indebted, filled in with anger. Such a simple and interesting observation. … Read More…
Dear Elsa, I seem to have trouble picking the right guys. When we meet, things get intense pretty quickly – and then the guy starts pulling away. I’ve been trying to lay off a bit and be a bit more … Read More…
Pluto is squaring my natal Mars in Libra. My son and my husband left today. This is the first time I have been alone (for the next two weeks) in the last twenty years! The first thing I noticed … Read More…
Having a fairly strong Libra / 7th house signature in my chart I have always been uncomfortable with the crusade against co-dependence that began in the 80’s. How can Libra (codependent) be all wrong and Aries (independent) be all right? … Read More…