Yes, Libra, you’re nice. Now learn to say no! … Read More…
Tag Archives: co-dependence
Hi Elsa: I’ve noticed that in relationships, I tend to be happy to adapt to the other person a lot…. friendship, family, romance, whatever. They adapt too, of course, because every relationship has some level of compromise. But I’m perfectly … Read More…
This is one of those risky topics. It gets into people’s un-comfort zones. Fact is, you’re uncomfortable whether I say anything or not. You just don’t know it. If your icky feelings are subconscious, this does not mean they don’t … Read More…
Astrologer, CF Perez, made an interesting statement about inequity in relationships. She said, when one person in a relationship gave far more than the other, the person who was indebted, filled in with anger. Such a simple and interesting observation. … Read More…
Dear Elsa, I seem to have trouble picking the right guys. When we meet, things get intense pretty quickly – and then the guy starts pulling away. I’ve been trying to lay off a bit and be a bit more … Read More…
Pluto is squaring my natal Mars in Libra. My son and my husband left today. This is the first time I have been alone (for the next two weeks) in the last twenty years! The first thing I noticed … Read More…
Having a fairly strong Libra / 7th house signature in my chart I have always been uncomfortable with the crusade against co-dependence that began in the 80’s. How can Libra (codependent) be all wrong and Aries (independent) be all right? … Read More…