I try to ignore what people think of me, because I’ve got Neptune conjunct my Midheaven, squaring Venus. Discerning how people see me is not a strong suit. Further, people tend to not see me, for these reasons and more. This is true in real life, but particularly true online. It’s sort of an all around […]
I spoke with a friend yesterday. His deepest, darkest secret has been exposed. I’ve been through this, twice. The first time was an agony; I thought I’d die. The second time… well, it was like the second time your heart is broken. It’s easier to cope. I want to specify, in all three cases, these
Let’s say you’re betrayed in some way. My husband and I deal with this, differently. I will flat out tell a person, look. I don’t trust you anymore. I will say those words. I will also say, “I don’t want to deal with you, and I am not going to deal with you.” That will be
I have been talking about being the one to “hold the knife”. I don’t realize I’m talking in code. Here’s the root of this… ~~ I’m often asked about this series of posts regarding the use of other people’s negative energy. I wrote this fifteen years ago but it’s the kind of thing that will
I was talking to a gal I met online, in 2000. Yep. We’ve known each other for nineteen years. She told me she could understand why I wouldn’t trust anyone; I was surprised.
What do you do when you are betrayed in a relationship? Do you leave right away or debate it? Do you stay in the relationship, look the other way and ignore it for awhile? Do you confront? Do you set the person up for an equivalent betrayal?
I have an alcoholic friend who recently hit bottom and found her way to AA. This is the first time she has ever shown up at their door. She has been in denial about the severity of her problem but when she hit bottom, she did so with such a thud. She was in a
