My son has a Sun Saturn conjunction. He has no childhood at all. My daughter is ill, Caring for her has consumed resources on so many levels he’s had no choice to go begging. It’s very simple. If one child is dying the other child has to get their own dinner.
It makes no difference that I am an aware and caring parent. This situation (his chart) has manifested in spite of my best efforts and consequently my son is a very grown up little boy.
Now I have a lot of Capricorn and I know he is an 8 year old. But I am amazed how adults seem to mistake him as someone they can partner with and pal around with. They choose my son to be their “company” and I notice this because I was similarly treated when I was a kid.
And people compliment me all the time on how grown up he is and I just want to shake my head and ask them, “Ever wonder how he got that way?” They don’t. They just want him to keep blowing them away with his level of sophistication and the quality of his character. Pretty stark, isn’t it?
Anyone else all grown up at 8 years old? What’s the Saturn / Capricorn situation in your chart?