I have a 7th house Sun natally and getting along with people was a major concern in my life. I did my best and all in vain. A couple of years ago I stopped trying hard and started to be what and who I am. I checked: It was the first time progressed Pluto was exact on progressed Sun (still 7th house).
As a default I found human beings interesting and beautiful in an aesthetic sense, but did not get along with them. Now, I feel repulsed by them. See their motives as I a veil has fallen down before my eyes. And now, as I don’t care, I get along with them. Is this what a progressed Sun-Pluto is all about?
The slow turning you describe does sound like a Pluto-flavored process. I’m not convinced this is the only thing you’ve got going on, though. You sound disillusioned (Neptune) and maybe a bit depressed (Saturn). But you asked about Sun Pluto so that’s where I’ll focus.
A Sun Pluto exchange will expose us to the underbelly or the shadow side (Pluto) of life (Sun). I was struck by two things in your writing.
First, you’re aware of the shadow side of others, but how much time have you spent digging through your own shadow? The conjunction is in your 7th house. This suggests you’d see disgusting things in others but not yourself.
I don’t say that to attack you. It’s just that you sound “stuck”. I suspect this would be a way to get moving.
Secondly, you state that you used to put a lot of energy into getting along with others. That’s appropriate for a 7th house Sun. You shine in partnership. That you’re not doing this now makes me wonder if it is not your light that is blocked.
Again, this is not a judgement. I’m thinking along the lines of a happy social person who becomes withdrawn, over time. You might want to crack the blinds?
The way you’re looking at this now – people suck, and so you do, because you don’t want to get along with them.
It’s possible to acknowledge that people are all flawed, including you….
And then get out there and contribute to that which is pleasant in the world.
To answer your specific question, yes this is what Sun Pluto is about, but you’re just scratching the surface.
What do you know about Sun conjunct Pluto in the 7th house?
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