We all have notions of who we are and who other people should be even if our notion is that we do not have these kinds of notions. I always say that people project their 7th house and I am no exception.
People also project their planets in Libra and planets involved in oppositions in their chart and while I have no oppositions in my chart, I do have Libra and most notably I have Mars in the sign.
Mars likes to fight and of course I am married to a very aggressive man who LOVES to fight. See how this works? It is him not me who likes to break a person’s face with his fist. It’s not me who takes risks and accepts outrageous challenges – that is him while I am a mere girl.
So now he is planning out honeymoon and slowly I realize that we are going to primarily visit the graves of soldiers, battleground where copious amounts of blood has been spilled and may even see the site of the severed arm. Initially I was stunned and fairly outraged as these are not places mere girls go. Aren’t I supposed to go lie on a beach and stay in a cabana on my honeymoon? BOOOOOORING.
The fact is I do want an adventure, I do want unconventional, I do like to visit dead soldiers and I do like to blame on the man and make myself look nice (Libra) for going along with him.
Knowing this is not exactly comfortable but if it does not have anything to do to me, how come I am happily going home with my fiance to announce our engagement, have fights and much strife and visiting dead soldiers (the Vietnam Memorial), 15 years ago? (Astrology And Bigotry / Shadow Side of the Collective series)
So now I am going to see a dead stuffed horse and so forth on my honeymoon and I just want you guys to know it is because my husband is weird (Uranus in 7th) and violent (Mars in Libra) and I am nice, nice, nice and also very normal.
And by the way I am sacrificing (Venus in 7th square Neptune) my happiness for the love of my husband and I get no pay off for this at all – I am just that kind of heavenly being and don’t you forget it or my aggressive husband will kick your ass, 😉
Name something you offload on the partner…