I have moved from my country for working reasons. I couldn’t find a job my country due to my age. I got a decent job pretty quickly here, but can not fit in – or better, I am not allowed to fit in, because I am an immigrant and people want to keep their distance.
Am I doing something wrong or it just means I have to move on again? I am a bit lost, I thought this moving was the start of a better phase, so I grab all my courage and started again at 52 years old, alone, in a new country. Do you have an advice for me?
Hi, Sagittarius Moon.
Your chart and your actions show a brave, realistic person, willing to experiment. You took a leap of faith and you’ve landed hard in some respects.
I say that, because most of your plan has gone well. You may be lonely, but you’ve established yourself in a new country. You’re self-supporting. You really only have this one problem to solve. You need some friends and some emotional support.
Here’s the interesting thing: Saturn is transiting your moon in Sagittarius at this time. This tells me, you’d likely be feeling “lack”, wherever you lived at this time. It also explains why you feel shut out (Saturn) by the locals who are foreigners (Sagittarius).
Basically, your confidence and optimism (Sagittarius) has collided with reality (Saturn). But this does not mean you can’t resolve this.
You have two choices.
- You can keep rambling.
Notice this is your first instinct. Sagittarius Moon is restless. If it’s no fun, then move along!
- You can acknowledge you have a decent foundation built and try to approach the local people in different ways (experiment) until you break through.
I’d probably go with the latter. You’re pretty well established, I’d hate to see you start from scratch. It is harder to find work in your fifties and you’ll be in your sixties before you know it.
I also think if you ground a bit, you’ll see this is a problem to solve, and you’ll figure out how to address it, the same way you realized you had to move to work.
It also occurs to me, if you were supposed to move, there would be far more indications of this. Nothing would be working. Doors slamming all over the place.
Instead, you’ve got everything work, outside this one door, which I think you can pry open if you wish.
If you do move on, make sure you think hard about what you’re supposed to learn from this. Because if you avoid that and move to escape something you’re supposed to work through, you’re bound to land hard a second time, to face the same lessons.
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