I can really feel Saturn bearing down on my Venus at this time. I find myself evaluating my worth in relationships. I guess that sounds cold but whatever! It’s a transit.
Uranus is also aspecting my Venus so there is some detachment involved. I’m just thinking about relationships in general. My astrology (Uranus) work (Saturn) is often focused on partnerships (Venus). This is another reason I am mulling this.
I started thinking about exactly what I had to offer in relationship. Why would someone be interested or not interested in partnering with me? I’ve written about “currency” for many years.
I’m updating (Uranus) my definition (Saturn) of my own value and what I’ve come up with is stark but not in a bad way. Here it is:
My main value, in my own estimation is I don’t bore people. You will not be bored! Ever.
This is interesting because my mother always said, “It’s a sin to bore people.” She was a double Aquarius.
I always have something new to say to talk about. I’m thinking getting into my friend’s car to go to lunch. I am literally a walking wild card. I know she has no earthly idea what I am going to report this time; only that it will be provocative? I don’t mean to be this way. I am this way.
I may have some other good qualities but as far as what is truly quintessential about my character, this is it. I’m not proud of this. It’s just undeniable.
I think this comes from Uranus in my 7th house. I know a lot of interesting people and I meet more of them, pretty much, every single day.
I don’t think this is a great quality that people desire. It would not be found on many lists of what a person wants in a relationship but I am high-value for people who hate being bored and love new information or ideas to chew on.
So what about you? What is the quintessential thing you “bring to the table” in relationships? What are you valued for and where is your Venus / sign, house and aspects?