PlutoRising asks on Playing To Your Strengths To Attract A Man:
this is so interesting… maybe because i have such a scorpion influence….
if one can pull in anything they want…. you’re saying simply by being who you are… but what if the other end does not want who you are?
That is not what I said. Here’s what I said in regards to the Scorpio woman, Venus in Scorpio, etc.:
“She can pull in anything she wants (yin). But instead she puts on galoshes goes out hunting a man which as far as I am concerned is akin to putting your make-up on the back of your head instead of your face. This is just not how it’s done!”
I do think this is true but when you pull someone to you, it doesn’t mean they are going to like you or love you or do your bidding. My point was that Scorpio is a (super) yin sign, powerful and magnetic. To play to this strength, it makes no sense to use masculine tactics. This would be like having your hair be your best feature and then you shave your head. If success is the goal (which is not always the case), why would you do that?
Bottom line, Scorpio can attract but the old adage, “be careful what you wish for”, applies. Therefore it’s key that you strive to be conscious of what you’re doing. Many don’t bother with this and you can see the results.
Do you want what is good for you or do you want what you want?