Last May, I was completely devastated by a breakup with a longtime boyfriend. The breakup came from out of nowhere–as far as I could see at the time–and it took me a very long time to stop feeling miserable. Every day was a struggle, and it’s only within the last four or five months that I’ve started feeling joy in my life again and have started to find interest in new men. I’m really pleased at this change, but am trying to be careful about choosing new partners since the last breakup was so awful for every aspect of my life.
Recently, I’ve become friends with a very nice guy who works in my building. He seems interested in getting to know me better, and I certainly would like to know him better. He’s an Aries. Aries guy and Scorpio girl? I’m kind of hesitant to get involved with someone who doesn’t seem immediately compatible and the reason is that my last boyfriend was a Gemini and the ending was so awful.
I remember reading on your blog once that it’s good to have chart compatibility, so what do you think? Should I give this cute Aries guy a chance, or should I wait for a nice Virgo or Cancer guy to come along?
A Cautious Scorpio
A little astrology is a dangerous thing and you are a perfect example of this. What makes you think Aries and Scorpio don’t get along? The fact is, they have a natural affinity because they are both Mars ruled. But take a larger lesson here, okay?
You are a Scorpio all right. That’s your Sun sign. But you have a Leo rising (compatible with Aries) and Jupiter in Aries to boot!
Now wherever you have Jupiter, people who have planets in the same sign are very beneficial to you. They expand you.
Further, your Mars and his Mars are conjunct in Cancer, making it very easy to hook up and join forces.
So based on this, obviously I think you should jump on this cute Aries guy. But even more importantly, don’t judge people by their Sun sign!!!