I’m with a Scorpio man who’s been horribly betrayed in the past.
I’m taking it slow, and would never hurt him like his ex did. We’re very good together, but he’s still having a very hard time letting go of the past. He’s extremely skittish about relationships in general.
Is there any way I can help him with this?
I understand you want to save him but this is entirely his process. All you can really do is be a trustworthy person. You can show up and how he handles it is entirely out of your hands. I’ll tell you my own experience though.
First, all Scorpios have been betrayed and a good number of them trust no one because of it. But other Scorpios will trust their gut. They open up to a select “inner circle” – a very small group of folks who they feel reasonably certain will not betray them.
As to which category your man falls in, I have no idea but I’d suggest you give him some space. I wouldn’t advise you tell him to “let go”. Scorpios will let go when and if they please!
His process is a deep and private one. There’s no way he’s going to let you in there to move his wires around. If you want to love a Scorpio, their pain is part of the package.
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What are your experiences with Scorpios and betrayal?