It’s been said that one of the biggest gifts of marriage is that it helps you get over your selfishness. This is true, as far as I can tell.
Astrologically, it seems to implicate Aries as being self-centered while glorifying, Libra, who cares for “the other”. I don’t buy this at all! I have met countless selfish Libras. I bet you can say the same.
This is on my mind today because I just wrapped up with an Aries client, trying to deal with a Saturn Pluto transit. In this case, the selfishness was not being expressed in a romantic relationship. It was playing the a parent (Capricorn) /child (Aries) realm.
Saturn in Capricorn pressures everyone to grow up. If your sun is in Aries, Cancer or Libra, you’re probably very aware of this. Depending on your age and experience, you may have no clue how to do this, so here is a tip!
Where in your life are you being selfish? If you can identify that and work on it, you’ll be amazed at how fast you get a handle on things. Because guess what? Adults aren’t selfish!
I’m serious about that so I’ll say it again. Adults aren’t selfish!
People with good marriages put their partner, first.
Good parents put their children first.
People with good families, give of themselves to keep their family strong and fortified.
What do you think of this?
Would your life benefit if you were less selfish?