Saturn Neptune and Distorted Reality + Mercury Opposite Mercury in Synastry

I am a Saturn Neptune sort. Reality shifts constantly. My husband and I were chatting:

“No there is not much difference between us,” he said. We’ve always been like this, P. We were like this when we were kids. We never did fit in. People were always looking at us like what the hell are those two doing?”

“What were we doing?”

“I don’t know. We were doing whatever we wanted to do. But whatever it was, none of it was normal. We were doing all kinds of things and no one else was doing the things we were doing. We were out there. We were completely abnormal as far as I can tell.”

I didn’t say anything because I didn’t really know what he was talking about. We have a Mercury opposition. He is always coming from some other direction. It often takes time for me to comprehend what he is saying. It’s as if information needs to be translated in the middle somewhere. This takes years in some cases.

“Well you tell me,” he said. “Tell me one thing we ever did that seems like it was normal to you.”

“Well, I don’t think I can point to anything special. I thought everything we did was normal. It’s very hard for me to see this view.” I stopped to think. “But I did get on my ten-speed and go sue my boss when you weren’t looking. I guess that’s not so normal. I was a weird kid. But on the other hand, that guy pissed me off. I don’t want to be sexually harassed and I could see a way to sue him, so again this seems like a normal thing to do. Isn’t it normal to get someone who is pissing you off if you can?”

“You can’t see this, can you?”

“No, I can’t.”

Can you see this?


Saturn Neptune and Distorted Reality + Mercury Opposite Mercury in Synastry — 4 Comments

  1. Now this I get, since this is pretty much my SOP. Most of my life I have dealt with “stuff” on my own because I didn’t think that others would respond in an appropriate way. Plus I have Scorpio in the 12th, so I’m naturally disinclined to share everything . . .

    BTW, Way To Go, Elsa on taking down that boss of yours!!! I dodged enough of that s**t working as a cocktail waitress in my early twenties. Did that for about 3-4 months & said “never again”! And I didn’t . . . 🙂

  2. I don’t know what’s normal either. I thought I was really normal when I was a kid but when I look at pictures of myself from back then I can sure see why people called me “quirky”. If I could talk to that me I would tell her to embrace that quirkiness and stop trying to be normal. Normal is boring and uninteresting anyway. 🙂

  3. I was talking to a guy this morning on the phone and he asked me what my bad side was.. i drew a blank.. “i’m just me” i said. I couldn’t think of what my bad side was – i’m actually pretty moral overall.
    I’ve always thought I was normal even when I haven’t fit the norm (uranus in the 1st). when I try to fit in I stand out and when i decide to stand out i fit in.
    God saturn in leo opposite neptune in aquarius has been really great overall. 🙂

  4. I haven’t been normal since a very small child thanks to some seriously deranged family stuff. I still have to remind myself of this, though, when I find I’m expecting others to react like I do or comparing myself to someone else: “G, babe, you ain’t normal. Stop it.” *lol*

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